NWR: QOTD - When you see something, do you say something?

ChrissynRicky Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:11 AM

NWR: QOTD - When you see something, do you say something?

So I'm getting my tea w/lemon this morning at a deli on Madison Avenue between 48th Street & 49th Street, and there's this huge black handbag sitting on the sidewalk w/no apparent owner. It wasn't there when I walked into the store, and it was there five minutes later when I walked out of the store.

I was in such awe of the amount of people just casually walking by it. I immediately notified security in my building (on the corner) and in turn called 911 to report it.

Some woman on the elevator just sneered at me and said 'What are you worried about? It's a handbag, probably belongs to some bum.' I responded with 'It's all well and good if it belongs to a bum and nothing's in it. However, if God forbid it turns out to be something else, I don't want my effing (yes, I cursed in Corporate America) head blown off, these are the times we live in a.hole (yes, another curse.)' As I got off the elevator, two people thanked me.

So that's my story, just curious to know - if and when you see something (suspicious) - do you say something?

beautyq115 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:13 AM

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You know something similar happened to me at the outlets in Riverhead...it wasn't a bag but someone was video taping the entrances and exits ..not in a touristy way....and it gave me a weird ominous feeling.....I wanted to say something to the security guard there but I didnn't...after telling the story to my FI...he was a little mad that I didn't say something..next time I will

kissy27 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:17 AM

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In today's world you need to be more observant & if you see something that just 'doesn't look right' you need to speak up! You never know & even if it is 'nothing' then at least it is peace of mind!

I would have done the same thing as you!!!!

BJandDan Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:18 AM

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I think you did the right thing Christine! I would have said something too and that woman had no business giving her two cents!

SweetCin704 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:18 AM

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This happened to me once on the subway & I kick myself in th azz for not saying something but there was a black backpack under the corner seats & a number of people got up & it just stayed there....most likely a kid just forgot to take it off the train, but you never know....

JessicaM. Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:20 AM

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If I see something, I DEFINITELY say something.

I am glad you called that idiot an a-hole...she clearly was- not the kind of person you want around you. VIGILANCE people! V-I-G-I-L-A-N-C-E

leese Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:20 AM

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i would definitely say something and it's good that you did.

ewickens Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:21 AM

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I think you made the right decision. Although we all want to believe we're safe and sound, the world around us isn't stable. Thank you for sticking up and saying something - we each can make the world a little safer in our own little ways!

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:23 AM

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i'm so glad you said something christine.

MissingTheBGene Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:32 AM

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Yes, I absolutely would, kudos to you Chris for taking a stand on that, that woman should be ashamed of herself. In this day and age, we need to be more observant and protective.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:33 AM

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Yes, I don't hesitate to call 9-1-1.

SIBride06 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:34 AM

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Christine.. We need more people like you in this world!!!

Cheers to you

I most definately WOULD report it. Unfortunately in this day & age that we live in.. anything is possible. Better safe than sorry.

EMES2006 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:41 AM

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Yes...In a Post Office no less! FH and I were on a long line at the P.O. and we noticed a package sitting on a side counter unattended. We kept watching it to see if anyone was coming back to pick it up. By the time we got up to the counter, we immediately told the postal worker, who thankfully told his manager. But I couldn't wait to get out of there in case there was something in that package!

And I'm glad you said something!! Every little bit helps. It's OUR responsibility, not someone else's!

johnsae Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:43 AM

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I'm very glad you said something. It's hard to know how to react sometimes, but better safe than sorry!

I always wonder what is in those huge trash bags that bums carry onto the subway....I mean, is that just a bag of their possesions or could the bag contain something dangerous? It's just so hard to know how to react in certain situations.

Preshy7 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:44 AM

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id TOTALLY say something
you did good christine

ChrissynRicky Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:46 AM

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Posted by johnsae

I'm very glad you said something. It's hard to know how to react sometimes, but better safe than sorry!

I always wonder what is in those huge trash bags that bums carry onto the subway....I mean, is that just a bag of their possesions or could the bag contain something dangerous? It's just so hard to know how to react in certain situations.

Did you ever see the homeless man that hangs around by us here at work that carries four huge bags & luggae all covered with duct tape?

johnsae Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:47 AM

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by johnsae

I'm very glad you said something. It's hard to know how to react sometimes, but better safe than sorry!

I always wonder what is in those huge trash bags that bums carry onto the subway....I mean, is that just a bag of their possesions or could the bag contain something dangerous? It's just so hard to know how to react in certain situations.

Did you ever see the homeless man that hangs around by us here at work that carries four huge bags & luggae all covered with duct tape?

yes!!!! Talk about a sketch ball!!!

ChrissynRicky Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:48 AM

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Posted by johnsae

Posted by ChrissynRicky

Posted by johnsae

I'm very glad you said something. It's hard to know how to react sometimes, but better safe than sorry!

I always wonder what is in those huge trash bags that bums carry onto the subway....I mean, is that just a bag of their possesions or could the bag contain something dangerous? It's just so hard to know how to react in certain situations.

Did you ever see the homeless man that hangs around by us here at work that carries four huge bags & luggae all covered with duct tape?

yes!!!! Talk about a sketch ball!!!

He's always around - all times, all days. I know he's harmless (as of now) but he scares the heck out of me. I just need to know what's in his bag and luggage, and why does it need to be covered in duct tape!

mtdr1106 Posted: Feb 22, 2006 09:52 AM

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i think you did the right thing. and i am glad you told that lady off.

i am a big believer that you need to do something - because if you wait for someone else too - it will never get done.

what was the story in the 70's about the girl in brooklyn - she was like 19 yrs old - and was being stabbed to death in the courtyard of her apt building - every single person in the building heard her begging and screaming for help - but no one called 911 - they all assumed someone else would do it. so the girl was killed infront of her own building with so many people hearing her die and they did nothing.