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That is odd....unless for some reason she lost all the stuff from the first baby to her ex or something else special like that......if anything, it should be small and local and thrown by someone else (example: we threw my boss a work shower for her 2nd baby, through her protests, b/c it was a boy and the first was a girl and EVERYONE wanted to buy her presents)
Posted by Snick n Nick
That is odd....unless for some reason she lost all the stuff from the first baby to her ex or something else special like that......if anything, it should be small and local and thrown by someone else (example: we threw my boss a work shower for her 2nd baby, through her protests, b/c it was a boy and the first was a girl and EVERYONE wanted to buy her presents)
I think it depends.....i always think its nice to have a little 'sprinkle' after the first baby.......also depends on how much time is inbetewwen the kids ( if its 3 years or more id hope to have a shower so i can update my stuff :) also if the second baby is a different sex then the first i think a second baby shower is ok cause you dont have anything for that baby.........
yeah, it's odd.. but then again lots of people are starting to feel that the 2nd or 3rd babies should get new stuff too. Just send her a gift or gift card.
Posted by mRm2008
Posted by Snick n Nick
That is odd....unless for some reason she lost all the stuff from the first baby to her ex or something else special like that......if anything, it should be small and local and thrown by someone else (example: we threw my boss a work shower for her 2nd baby, through her protests, b/c it was a boy and the first was a girl and EVERYONE wanted to buy her presents)
I would have expected his family to throw her one. Knowing her as well as I do, and the situations she has been in through the years (never good) she's probably in a tough spot. No one has spoken to her or seen her in years and then we all get this invite. She registered at Wal-Mart, Target, and Babies R US. I think I am going to get her a Babies R US gift card. At least that way I know she has to get something for the baby.
IMHO I think it's really greedy of her to do something like that. It would be much more appropriate if someone else threw it for her. My friend had 2 boys then was pregnant with a girl and her friends threw her a small shower. It was really nice, but not a huge shower and she had NO clue about it.
meg is there a huge age difference or anything?
