NWR: the world is so unfair!

What-Now Posted: Mar 10, 2003 07:30 PM

NWR: the world is so unfair!

I just found out that my very close friend, after 2 years of trying and a lot of very expensive medical help with the matter, got pregnant and then lost the pregnancy in 6 weeks! It is so sad! To finally get it and then loose it, may be even worst then not getting pregnant at all!

i was just thinking how unfair it is: there all these 15 year olds getting knocked up left and right and don't even want it, and she wants it so much and can't have it! She is almost 37 and she has no hope left! I am so upset, I want to cry! This ****s! Sorry girls, just needed to share! Can't really talk about it with people I know, it's confidential! Thanks for listening!

nrvbrd Posted: Mar 10, 2003 07:32 PM

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I am so so sorry to hear this. I am really saddened by this. My heart goes out to her.

It IS unfair!!!!!

Do you think she will consider adoption? There are so many beautiful babies out there without parents.

NovemberSue Posted: Mar 10, 2003 08:04 PM

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Sometimes things do seem so unfair.
I used to work with a girl who also had to seek medical help to get pregnant.After years of problems trying to get pregnant,her and her husband were going to take a break,and guess what......they got pregnant naturally.
They are now the proud parents of a baby boy.
I hope your friend gets her little baby soon. Lots of baby dust to your friend.*******************

Thrilled Posted: Mar 10, 2003 08:52 PM

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One of my closest friends is 35, an after years of fighting endometriosis and several operations and three rounds of fertility treatments, they got pregnant. She had a miserable first and second trimester (hospitalized 9 times for dehydration, vomiting every single day of her pregnancy, unable to work) and unfortunately, she lost the baby at 6 months' gestation. She had to deliver a stillborn girl right before Christmas. IT was horrible. BUT she feels that given her body's violent reaction to being pregnant, it was trying to tell her something. Same may be true for your friend, but I hope in my heart of hearts she is able to have a child of her own someday, be it adopted or not...

desyre Posted: Mar 10, 2003 08:58 PM

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My aunt tried for years and years to have a baby but nothing happened finally when she turned 43, she gave up all hope and stopped trying. She is now 52 years old and 3 months pregnant. Never give up, there is always hope.

Sasha96 Posted: Mar 10, 2003 10:29 PM

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I wish all the best for your friend. It must be so difficult.

A friend of mine was getting into her late 30's and couldn't get pregnant. She adopted her beautiful daughter through Baby-Safe-Haven. That is where a woman can leave her baby at a safe place, like some hospitals, and they can get adopted. It was so nice.