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NWR- Your thoughts needed

missK Posted:

NWR- Your thoughts needed

If you had a good friend that you knew did something that bothered you and you confronted them about it and asked is it true or false. They answered you false but you dont really 100% buy it. Fast forward in time and the same topic comes up and you confront again.

How would you handle it? Do you think that the second time they are lying?
or you give them the benefit of the doubt once again. ?
wifetobe Posted:

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that's a tough one.. It would depend on how serious the situation is. If it's something that affects you are people you love negatively I'd find out the truth and don't let it go. If it's nothing too serious....give her the benefit of the doubt and let it go or chalk it up to a quircky flaw.

AND...if there is absolutely no way of you knowing wheather she is telling the truth or not...let it go b/c it will ruin your friendship....if you can somehow find out the truth..then maybe dig a little deeper...depending on the severity of the issue.

good luck
KK Holiday Posted:

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if it was my friend.... it would come down to this:

either i trust her/him or i dont. if i have asked her and she gave me an answer, i would trust her response.
Future Mulligan Posted:

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it would depend on what they were denying i guess...

missK Posted:

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I just dont get the feeling that I am being told the truth but there really isnt anyway for me to know. Its that gut feeling like I already know the answer.

How can i keep bringing up the conversation without being too intrusive?
LittlePup34 Posted:

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it depends on what the circumstances are

wifetobe Posted:

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Unfortunately it's difficult to say what you should do or how to bring it up without knowing the circumstances...

You can change the names to protect the innocent!!

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