**NYE Plans!**

I don't know if we already did this but what is everyone doing??

Well shortly after midnight will be me and the Fh's engaementversary! I am so excited! We are going back to the scene of the crime! Fox Hollow! Staying overnight and all! cant wait!

ahh this is going to be a big problem for me.

I'm invited to 2 house parties. 2 friends who are not friends with each other from my undergrad college. One is dating FBIL (and I don't want to go to her party I'd rather go to the other party bc I've been having issues with her and FBIL) sooo I'm torn what to do - it's going to be really bad when they find out I went to the other one.

There is no way around not telling them either bc pictures will end up on facebook like the next day.

I have no idea what we're doing yet because FH has to be at work at 7am on New Years Day. We will probably just do something low key.

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Posted by JessNicole7EM

ahh this is going to be a big problem for me.

I'm invited to 2 house parties. 2 friends who are not friends with each other from my undergrad college. One is dating FBIL (and I don't want to go to her party I'd rather go to the other party bc I've been having issues with her and FBIL) sooo I'm torn what to do - it's going to be really bad when they find out I went to the other one.

There is no way around not telling them either bc pictures will end up on facebook like the next day.

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Maybe you can tell one of them that you already had plans that night. This way, you're being honest and then if they see facebook photos they will already know that you had other plans anyway.

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Posted by ellie424

I have no idea what we're doing yet because FH has to be at work at 7am on New Years Day. We will probably just do something low key.

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Posted by JessNicole7EM

ahh this is going to be a big problem for me.

I'm invited to 2 house parties. 2 friends who are not friends with each other from my undergrad college. One is dating FBIL (and I don't want to go to her party I'd rather go to the other party bc I've been having issues with her and FBIL) sooo I'm torn what to do - it's going to be really bad when they find out I went to the other one.

There is no way around not telling them either bc pictures will end up on facebook like the next day.

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Maybe you can tell one of them that you already had plans that night. This way, you're being honest and then if they see facebook photos they will already know that you had other plans anyway.

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The problem is they're facebook friends with each other - they were both such good friends with me that they ended up hanging out so much that they know each other pretty well, they just don't see/speak in the last year or so since graduation.

FBILs girlfriend invited me 3 weeks ago, through facebook in a closed invitation type thing (she invited like maybe 15 people).

My other friend invited like 200 ppl (everyone on her facebook list which includes fbils girlfriend). And on the invite it says 'sorry this is so last minute, as you all know I was supposed to be in Florida for NYE but since yesterday we found out our plans are canceled yadda yadda yadda) so FBILs gf knows it was last minute.