OBGYN Question

alina Posted: Jan 22, 2004 09:04 AM

OBGYN Question

I am trying to figure out if my Dr. is bad or I am being too picky. So far I haven't had health issues/problems and have been happy with him. However, at the last appt, something not so good was discovered. Its wasn't horrible news, but not the best. I was notifed over the phone and set up an appt. for questions.

At my appt. last night, I found out more not so good news, and got a little upset b/c the doctor didn't notify me of them prior to the appt. His excuse was: Well, I was going to see you anyway, so I waited instead of calling.

Also, while answering my questions, I thought the doctor was really businesslike, stating information matter of factly. He also didn't offer any sort of resource information, such as books or internet resource (besides his own advice).

Should I seek a new doc? I am not ready to TTC just yet, but would rather have someone now whom I can go to when preggo. I just don't know if I feel comfortable, knowing that he hold onto information for a while and also that he was so businesslike. There was no emotion involved.

He does however pride himself in delivering babies, etc.

Am I wrong/too picky?

Stacey1403 Posted: Jan 22, 2004 09:07 AM

Re: OBGYN Question

If you aren't comfortable find a new Dr.

There are 3 women and 2 men where I go. I find the women are a much better source of support.

jlf41 Posted: Jan 22, 2004 09:11 AM

Re: OBGYN Question

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jan 22, 2004 09:20 AM

Re: OBGYN Question

if you are not totally comfortable with him and you do not like that he didnt call you and waited to see you, I would look for someone else. Good Luck! and I sent you FM too

alina Posted: Jan 22, 2004 11:00 AM

Re: OBGYN Question

bump

JennRenee Posted: Jan 22, 2004 11:01 AM

Re: OBGYN Question

Posted by Stacey1403

If you aren't comfortable find a new Dr.

That's the best advice. If you're even questioning whether or not to switch, it's time to switch.

Lisalou Posted: Jan 22, 2004 11:23 AM

Re: OBGYN Question

I agree as well, you need to be comfortable with your doctor. If you don't trust him, find another...good luck!

NovemberSue Posted: Jan 22, 2004 01:23 PM

Re: OBGYN Question

If you don't like the way the dr handled things and you don't feel comfortable, then switch drs. Its very important that you feel confident with your dr.

LizD Posted: Jan 22, 2004 01:32 PM

Re: OBGYN Question

I would definetly get a second opinion, especially if you are not comfortable with this dr.

2003OCT10 Posted: Jan 22, 2004 02:52 PM

Re: OBGYN Question

I agree with Liz.... Try someone new! Good Luck... It will all work out!

Cindy Posted: Jan 22, 2004 03:11 PM

Re: OBGYN Question

I would definetely switch. If you dont feel comfortable, then you should follow your inner feeling. At the very least, I would go to someone else to see what they say about the issue you are dealing with. Good luck.

Claud2001 Posted: Jan 22, 2004 03:14 PM

Re: OBGYN Question

Posted by alina

Also, while answering my questions, I thought the doctor was really businesslike, stating information matter of factly.

I just don't know if I feel comfortable, knowing that he hold onto information for a while and also that he was so businesslike. There was no emotion involved.

I agree w/the other ladies that you might want to begin researching other doctors.

I think that its common for many doctors to approach their patients in 'businesslike' ways b/c that is how they approach their jobs in general. Not every doctor has a wonderful bedside manner and knows how to show compassion, emotion or even sympathy. Some of them probably feel that it's simply impossible to get emotionally involved in every single patient's case.