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Offical List?

FancyMe1018 Posted:

Offical List?

So I found this follow on this website. What do you think ?



12 MONTHS:
· Congratulations you're engaged. Enjoy the moment.
· Get the families together over dinner and discuss the kind of wedding that you and your fiancé want.
· Set a wedding budget. Prioritize which items are most important to you
· Do a preliminary guest list. You need an idea of how many guests there will be.
· Select a date
· Choose a reception site
· Reserve the Church
· Select an officiant

11 MONTHS:
· Choose your wedding party.
· Send out engagement announcements. If you are getting married during the summer or at holiday time enclose a 'save the date' card.
· Do your Gift Registry.
· Select a Photographer
· If your caterer has a tasting attend one.

10 MONTHS:
· Hold an engagement party.
· Book your band or DJ.
· Book your videographer.

9 MONTHS:
· Begin shopping for a wedding gown.
· Meet with florists and decide on a color scheme.

8 MONTHS:
· Order your wedding gown
· Shop for your shoes and other bridal accessories.
· Select your headpiece and veil.

7 MONTHS:
· Select bridesmaids dresses
· Reserve Limousines
· Arrange for time-off from work for the wedding and the honeymoon.

6 MONTHS:
· Decide on a honeymoon location and reserve it now.
· Shop for your wedding rings
· Choose your menu with the caterer

5 MONTHS:
· Decide on Men's Formalwear and reserve it.
· Look at samples for centerpieces at the florist.
· Decide on the style of your bridal bouquet and the bridesmaids bouquets.
· Look at wedding invitations.

4 MONTHS:
· Order your wedding invitations.
· Select a hotel for your out-of-town guests.
· Meet with your officiant. If you are writing part of your ceremony begin working on it together.
· Shop for bridal party gifts
· Order your favors

3 MONTHS:
· Address your Wedding Invitations
· Arrange for hair and make-up for your wedding day for yourself and members of the bridal party.
· Try out some hairstyles with your headpiece and veil.
· Meet with musicians and select the music for the ceremony and for your first dance.

2 MONTHS:
· Send out wedding invitations
· Have fitting on your gown
· If you need a passport for your honeymoon order it now.
· Check on requirements for a marriage license.
· Meet with photographer and go over a list of photos that you want.

4 WEEKS:
· Have final fitting on your wedding gown and on the bridesmaid dresses.
· Get marriage license.

3 WEEKS:
· Finish seating plan.
· Have guest seating cards written

2 WEEKS:
· Confirm honeymoon reservations. Be sure you have your tickets and passport.
· Pick-up your wedding rings.
· Confirm all delivery dates and times with the florist.
· Confirm pick-up times for Limousines.
· Confirm with your Musicians the time and location of the ceremony, as well as the reception.
· Confirm with the Videographer the time to be at your house, at the ceremony, and at the reception.
· Confirm with the Photographer the time to be at your house, at the ceremony, and at the reception.
· Make sure the bridesmaids have picked up their gowns.

1 WEEK:
· Pick up your wedding gown
· Arrange to have the Men's Formalwear picked up. Make sure shoes, and all the accessories are in the bag.
· Finish writing your ceremony
· Give the caterer your final head count. Drop off your guest seating cards

DAY BEFORE:
· Spend the day at a spa relaxing.
· Get your nails done.
· Give your maid-of-honor/best man the marriage license and rings
· Attend rehearsal dinner
· Get a good night's sleep

YOUR WEDDING DAY:
· Eat breakfast. It's going to be a long and exciting day.
· Get make-up and hair done.
· Get dressed.
· Have a wonderful time.
All of the planning you did will insure that things go smoothly.
cherish83 Posted:

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I dont really follow any of those lists. I like to get things done early. And if you were to wait til that close to the wedding to book some vendors, the ones you'd want are likely to already be booked. I just look at the checklists to make sure that i know what I have to do, not when.

FancyMe1018 Posted:

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thanks for the info.... i am surprised how soon things are booked .... i am still in shock

MJDoc12 Posted:

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those lists are evil...they always made me paranoid when i was doing my wedding planning. lol
SeaMaiden Posted:

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that list makes me nervous...its probably going to take me 10 months alone to find a dress i want!!!! the only good thing would be that if you used that list you cant agonize over everything, because you dont have time to!

FutureMrsRice Posted:

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I really like the list and it is one of the best I have seen. I do agree on booking vendors a little earlier, but I am having a winter wedding, so I don't have quite the same pressure as summer brides.

Great list!!

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