Official 30+ Brides (previously 40+ thread)

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Posted by Ray8183

Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes. I think i was a problem child.

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Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes. I think i was a problem child.

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Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though

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He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money. never a boring moment.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes. I think i was a problem child.

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Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though

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He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money. never a boring moment.

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You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes. I think i was a problem child.

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Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though

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He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money. never a boring moment.

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You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky

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On our first date I question him about his sexuality and what he like and want i didn't. I couldn't believe at the end of the evening when he ask can I call you tommorrow for another date. That's when I knew he was for me. I have issues.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes. I think i was a problem child.

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Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though

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He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money. never a boring moment.

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You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky

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On our first date I question him about his sexuality and what he like and want i didn't. I couldn't believe at the end of the evening when he ask can I call you tommorrow for another date. That's when I knew he was for me. I have issues.

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I could never bring DH to a strip club either. I totally admire your openness
though!!!

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Posted by sophisticat13

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes. I think i was a problem child.

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Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though

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He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money. never a boring moment.

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You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky

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On our first date I question him about his sexuality and what he like and want i didn't. I couldn't believe at the end of the evening when he ask can I call you tommorrow for another date. That's when I knew he was for me. I have issues.

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I could never bring DH to a strip club either. I totally admire your openness
though!!!

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I am so crazy, he just doesn't know who he is going meeting. I have been known to show up with different color wigs and outfits. One time I have met him at his job in one of my outfits to pick him up all his co-workers thought he was seeing another woman until later. I don't know...maybe I need help.

Just stopping by to say hi
No class tomorrow!! Yay!!
i think we are going to book our HM tomorrow.
Will let you all know how it goes!

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Just stopping by to say hi
No class tomorrow!! Yay!!
i think we are going to book our HM tomorrow.
Will let you all know how it goes!

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Hi!! Where are you looking to go? Def. let us know

Yay!! We booked our HM!!

7 Day SOUTHERN CARIBBEAN
Ship: Carnival Victory
Departs: San Juan, Puerto Rico

Itinerary: Southern Caribbean: San Juan, Puerto Rico ; St. Thomas, USVI ; Dominica ; Barbados ; St. Lucia, WI ; Antigua ; St Kitts, WI ; San Juan, Puerto Rico

We got it for $1416.00 incl all fees!!
We still have to book flights which wont come out till Dec and I have to look into Orlando for 4 days after. My travel agent said he is going to look into packages for us for that.
I am so happy and excited!

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Yay!! We booked our HM!!

7 Day SOUTHERN CARIBBEAN
Ship: Carnival Victory
Departs: San Juan, Puerto Rico

Itinerary: Southern Caribbean: San Juan, Puerto Rico ; St. Thomas, USVI ; Dominica ; Barbados ; St. Lucia, WI ; Antigua ; St Kitts, WI ; San Juan, Puerto Rico

We got it for $1416.00 incl all fees!!
We still have to book flights which wont come out till Dec and I have to look into Orlando for 4 days after. My travel agent said he is going to look into packages for us for that.
I am so happy and excited!

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You will have a great time...Remember to step out of your box and try something new. It is your HM.

We also ordered our toasting flutes last nite. They are so pretty. Heres what they look like

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Posted by Ray8183

Pretty. What's next?

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Next thing is Friday- MOH and I are going to look at dresses again. I have about 6 picked out. This will be so much fun!

Time to vent about mom again. She had an attitude about me going to look at dresses Friday. I asked her to go with us and she gave me that 'why are you going now, your not getting married for 1 1/2 years' Ya think she would know me by now. I like getting things done and out of the way. Since I got that from her you would think she would understand. Why do I feel like I am pulling teeth when it comes to this wedding?
Ok vent over.


Edited: I just spoke to my father about the way my mom is about this wedding. He sees it too and didnt want to say anything to me, but he feels so bad about it. He also told me that her mother (my grandmom) did the same thing to her when they were getting married and she felt bad that it was done to her. So why is she like this to me? I dont understand.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Yay!! We booked our HM!!

7 Day SOUTHERN CARIBBEAN
Ship: Carnival Victory
Departs: San Juan, Puerto Rico

Itinerary: Southern Caribbean: San Juan, Puerto Rico ; St. Thomas, USVI ; Dominica ; Barbados ; St. Lucia, WI ; Antigua ; St Kitts, WI ; San Juan, Puerto Rico

We got it for $1416.00 incl all fees!!
We still have to book flights which wont come out till Dec and I have to look into Orlando for 4 days after. My travel agent said he is going to look into packages for us for that.
I am so happy and excited!

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You will have a great time...Remember to step out of your box and try something new. It is your HM.

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Yay congrats!!! It sounds absolutely awesome!!

DH and I are booking an Eastern Caribbean cruise for our one yr anniversary this July. I can't wait, we've never been on a cruise yet!!! Have you been on one before?

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Time to vent about mom again. She had an attitude about me going to look at dresses Friday. I asked her to go with us and she gave me that 'why are you going now, your not getting married for 1 1/2 years' Ya think she would know me by now. I like getting things done and out of the way. Since I got that from her you would think she would understand. Why do I feel like I am pulling teeth when it comes to this wedding?
Ok vent over.


Edited: I just spoke to my father about the way my mom is about this wedding. He sees it too and didnt want to say anything to me, but he feels so bad about it. He also told me that her mother (my grandmom) did the same thing to her when they were getting married and she felt bad that it was done to her. So why is she like this to me? I dont understand.

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It's funny how kids do the same things they hated themselves, to their OWN kids. It's like they forget how it felt I think she doesn't fully realize she is doing it...it is alot easier to repeat a pattern than to realize you are doing it and to change. I am glad your dad sees it though and is on your side just as we are!!!

eta: Love your toasting flutes!!

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Posted by sophisticat13

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Time to vent about mom again. She had an attitude about me going to look at dresses Friday. I asked her to go with us and she gave me that 'why are you going now, your not getting married for 1 1/2 years' Ya think she would know me by now. I like getting things done and out of the way. Since I got that from her you would think she would understand. Why do I feel like I am pulling teeth when it comes to this wedding?
Ok vent over.


Edited: I just spoke to my father about the way my mom is about this wedding. He sees it too and didnt want to say anything to me, but he feels so bad about it. He also told me that her mother (my grandmom) did the same thing to her when they were getting married and she felt bad that it was done to her. So why is she like this to me? I dont understand.

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It's funny how kids do the same things they hated themselves, to their OWN kids. It's like they forget how it felt I think she doesn't fully realize she is doing it...it is alot easier to repeat a pattern than to realize you are doing it and to change. I am glad your dad sees it though and is on your side just as we are!!!

eta: Love your toasting flutes!!

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ITA...What want you to know, that my mom and sisters have not looked at any RHs, dresses, or flowers with me. My FMIL want to go with me to look at dresses and I have to make my family sit down and look at invites. I am so gave that my FH care about what I am doing.

When I told my mom I'm wearing blue shoes she ask what color is the dress and I told her black to get a rise. She said no white dress and i said the shoes will still be blue. Then she said if I buy the shoes can you wear white and said still need something blue, she said can it be the panties. I said no I;m wearing organge because i want to shine, then she said her famous line. Okay it's your wedding you can wear what you want. That's was months ago.

Now my e-party is Sept 26, so far the only people who have ask about it was my co-workers. You would think since both mother want the party, they would ask questions. My mom is all about the cake and MFIL is all about it a call a family friend to DJ. So don't feel bad you can vent anytime.