Official 30+ Brides (previously 40+ thread)

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Sorry, I was off-site yesterday. You have FM.

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no i dont

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Okay, i was call away from my desk you have it now. P.S. you don't have to write the post.

Okay ladies, it posted on all the boards. See my word is bond. Boy, that was old.

You did great!!
I replied yes!!

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Posted by Tomlaur0808

Great! Is this gal's only or is anyone bringing their DH's w/them?

Thanks again!

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I am not bring my FH

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Posted by Future Mrs H

You did great!!
I replied yes!!

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I knew you would, I'm just happy that it being read.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

You did great!!
I replied yes!!

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I knew you would, I'm just happy that it being read.

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OK ladies...I posted it on the NW board!!! And I RSVPed too

Ok - so since my shower was this Sunday (still waiting on pictures.....)

I probably will be able to attend unless there is some wedding/house thing to attend to. I feel like there aren't enough weekends left!

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Posted by geegee827

Ok - so since my shower was this Sunday (still waiting on pictures.....)

I probably will be able to attend unless there is some wedding/house thing to attend to. I feel like there aren't enough weekends left!

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You going to get through with flying colors. I can't wait to meet you.

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Posted by Future Mrs H

How was the shower Gina??? Cant wait to see pics.

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Yes, pics please.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

How was the shower Gina??? Cant wait to see pics.

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Yes, pics please.

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I haven't even seen any pictures yet! I am running up to CT this weekend to see my friends and I know she has pictures for me.

As soon as I get 'em I'll post them.

The shower was amazing though. I am still completely overwhelmed by everyone's generosity. I think we got almost everything on our registries. The only complaint - it FLEW by. I can only imagine how fast the wedding is going go!

I'm looking forward to the 20th!

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Posted by jennybee

Oooh! Can I join in? I'm 37 and new at this!

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Hi Jenny...congrats and welcome.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by jennybee

Oooh! Can I join in? I'm 37 and new at this!

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Hi Jenny...congrats and welcome.

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Hi Jenny- Welcome and Congrats!! and of course you can join

Ladies, how are we doing? This does not mean just the wedding. We all have a life outside of planning and I just want to know how we really doing?

I'll start first, yes my e-party is Sept 26 and I'm not feeling it because of all the other drama in my life (Family, Job, wanting to fix the house which we brought back in October) just to name a few. I'm wondering is all the stress in my life is worth it. I believe in you only have good health once and when you lose it you may not get it back. I don't believe in keeping drama inside yourself because it will eat you alive.

So ladies is anyone doing okay. Or do you need a support group, just someone to listen not to give an opinion?

Everything is okay with me. Started classes again, got a new boss and still hunting for photo.

The only stress right now is needing for $$ (but that will probably always be an issue. ) And trying to figure out how to do student teaching without taking out a loan.

Thanks Vanessa. You are going to find the right photo/video vendor. As for $$$ keep your chin up we are all in the same boat.

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Posted by Ray8183

Ladies, how are we doing? This does not mean just the wedding. We all have a life outside of planning and I just want to know how we really doing?

I'll start first, yes my e-party is Sept 26 and I'm not feeling it because of all the other drama in my life (Family, Job, wanting to fix the house which we brought back in October) just to name a few. I'm wondering is all the stress in my life is worth it. I believe in you only have good health once and when you lose it you may not get it back. I don't believe in keeping drama inside yourself because it will eat you alive.

So ladies is anyone doing okay. Or do you need a support group, just someone to listen not to give an opinion?

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It's definitely a stressful time period. I think I was fine with just the normal work, family, life, wedding stress but throw buying a house into the mix and I'm definitely losing my mind a bit. We're waiting for the mortgage commitment so I'm sure that once I have that it hand, I'll rest a little bit easier.

Of course, then we have to add moving to the list, but my new mantra is 'it will all be ok.'

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Posted by Ray8183

Ladies, how are we doing? This does not mean just the wedding. We all have a life outside of planning and I just want to know how we really doing?

I'll start first, yes my e-party is Sept 26 and I'm not feeling it because of all the other drama in my life (Family, Job, wanting to fix the house which we brought back in October) just to name a few. I'm wondering is all the stress in my life is worth it. I believe in you only have good health once and when you lose it you may not get it back. I don't believe in keeping drama inside yourself because it will eat you alive.

So ladies is anyone doing okay. Or do you need a support group, just someone to listen not to give an opinion?

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I'm doing OK...going back to school this week (teaching) so a big adjustment....Dh and I are trying to decide whether to have a child or not (he wants, I'm not so sure...I think it's a lot more stressful than it looks among other reasons!!) so we have been going through some stress lately. Other than that...life is good You seem like you are under a lot of stress Ray.....what's going on with your job and fam?