This thread was orignally started for the 40+ Brides but would love to invite all 30+ brides to join.
I love talking to all the brides out there but I would like to hear what us 'Older Brides' are doing to plan their wedding. I am finding that I am doing things a little different and would like to see what others are doing.
My name is Celia and 46 y/o bride.
Future Mrs H
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I had a great time meeting everyone yesterday. I wish I didnt have to leave early though. Did I leave enough money to cover my meal? If not let me know and I will send it to whoever covered it. i will post the pic tonite when I get home form work.
Laurie- I am so sorry you didnt make it. Prayers for you and your family
You left too much. I have your money. Do you have a paypal account or do you want me to meet you?
Dont worry about it. You can give it to me at the next GTG. I do have a pay pal account but I dont know how to use it except to buy things on E-bay
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It was fun to meet everyone, and hear about all the wacky MIL's! Have a great week!
Love the pics Celia...thanks for remembering to bring your camera!!
Future Mrs H
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your welcome!
Im getting Married
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Love the pics..except your not in them
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Love the pics..except your not in them
They did come out good! Everyone looks great!
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Love the pics..except your not in them
I agree. That's why she brought the camera.
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Ok girls i need to vent a little but its NWR
My parents have lost their minds. My parents have 2 really bad cracks in their bedroom that needs to be fixed and my mom and him are expecting myself and my 2 brothers to knock down the wall and put sheetrock up. Now my 1 brother is very handy and can possibly do it, but me and my other brother is not handy at all. As a matter of fact my 4 yr old nephew is probably handier than we are. Now I am really stressing about this. I know I cant do this and my father is insisting on us doing it. I can just imagine what will go on. This will not be good.
Oh and my dad refuses to pay money to get it fixed because 'why pay money when you can do it your self'
Sorry just need to get it out
Ray8183
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Ok girls i need to vent a little but its NWR
My parents have lost their minds. My parents have 2 really bad cracks in their bedroom that needs to be fixed and my mom and him are expecting myself and my 2 brothers to knock down the wall and put sheetrock up. Now my 1 brother is very handy and can possibly do it, but me and my other brother is not handy at all. As a matter of fact my 4 yr old nephew is probably handier than we are. Now I am really stressing about this. I know I cant do this and my father is insisting on us doing it. I can just imagine what will go on. This will not be good.
Oh and my dad refuses to pay money to get it fixed because 'why pay money when you can do it your self'
Sorry just need to get it out
Can you ask your brother the one that is handy, if he has any friends who can help? Or any friend no matter who is the friend. I've learned sometime a pizza works best as payment when money is tight. I've done that to move and painting a house. It’s just a thought.
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Posted by Future Mrs H
Ok girls i need to vent a little but its NWR
My parents have lost their minds. My parents have 2 really bad cracks in their bedroom that needs to be fixed and my mom and him are expecting myself and my 2 brothers to knock down the wall and put sheetrock up. Now my 1 brother is very handy and can possibly do it, but me and my other brother is not handy at all. As a matter of fact my 4 yr old nephew is probably handier than we are. Now I am really stressing about this. I know I cant do this and my father is insisting on us doing it. I can just imagine what will go on. This will not be good.
Oh and my dad refuses to pay money to get it fixed because 'why pay money when you can do it your self'
Sorry just need to get it out
Can you ask your brother the one that is handy, if he has any friends who can help? Or any friend no matter who is the friend. I've learned sometime a pizza works best as payment when money is tight. I've done that to move and painting a house. It’s just a thought.
I was actually thinking of asking a co-worker of mine and my brothers(the handy one) to help. He is great when it comes to things like that. But the thing is that my brother is his boss and I dont want it to get around (conflict of interests) Also we would offer to pay him and I know he wont take it.
IDK- maybe if I just ignore the situation it will go away
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[IDK- maybe if I just ignore the situation it will go away
I've never know that to work, but please tell us the outcome.
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Hi Celia, I don't have any good advice, sorry! But I'm here to listen to you vent. I woild probably just ignore the situation too, especially if your parents don't want to accept the fact that the best option is to just hire someone to do it!
Future Mrs H
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Bump!
Future Mrs H
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Vanessa- You said you were going to post a pic-We are waiting!!!!
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Posted by Future Mrs H
[IDK- maybe if I just ignore the situation it will go away
I've never know that to work, but please tell us the outcome.
I love this strategy Celia! I try to do that whenever possible but it never seems to pan out for me!
I'm sorry I've been m-i-a a lot this week - it's been brutal at work and trying to finish planning and close on the house. So many phone calls back and forth between the seller's attorney, the bank's attorney, the title closer, the mortgage guy, etc. However, I found out today that we are about 95% sure we'll be able to close on 10/5.
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Thanks for posting the pix, they really did turn out well! Ray....I am soooo looking forward to hearing how the wedding goes. Btw, if you want you can wear the birdcage on the side. Or you could even bubble up the veil and just wear it as a flower. I think there is a photo in my old newsysuzy album.
good luck with planning everyone!
marriedinmontauk
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Ray this is the picture of the birdcage and flower. Do what ever you like with it, you could even cut off the veil and just wear the flower.
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