Official 30+ Brides (previously 40+ thread)

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Posted by Im getting Married

As for my dress..I was joking when I said because of price..but the price was unbelivable for the dress..I do like it but I will definately still be trying on dresses.

I have the week between Christmas and New Years off this year so I will be doing major dress shopping

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You are going to find the dress for you. Don't think too hard and don't stress, 'The Dress Will Come To You.'

With exactly one month to go - I am just about done!

I still have to:

do programs
figure out tables
do escort cards
final meeting with DJ
final fitting
do OOT gift bags for hotel
have hair trial (going next Wed night)
second fitting
finish doing jordan almond bags
wrap favors
pack for HM
finish cleaning, painting, etc., and move into new house (possibly not going to happen until AFTER HM)
finalize CP's
PAY EVERYONE

I think that's it - but I'm sure I'm missing stuff. If anyone thinks I'm totally forgetting something, please let me know - between work, the wedding and the new house, my brain in mush these days.

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Posted by geegee827

With exactly one month to go - I am just about done!

I still have to:

do programs
figure out tables
do escort cards
final meeting with DJ
final fitting
do OOT gift bags for hotel
have hair trial (going next Wed night)
second fitting
finish doing jordan almond bags
wrap favors
pack for HM
finish cleaning, painting, etc., and move into new house (possibly not going to happen until AFTER HM)
finalize CP's
PAY EVERYONE

I think that's it - but I'm sure I'm missing stuff. If anyone thinks I'm totally forgetting something, please let me know - between work, the wedding and the new house, my brain in mush these days.

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How about tip envelopes.
Call people who havent RSVP'd
Thats all I can think of

ooh - thanks for the tip envelopes! I would have forgotten.

The only people who haven't RSVP are 20 of FH's friends - yup 10 couples (one guy is in the BP - nice, huh?), my aunt and uncle who are living in Mexico and trying to see if they are going to be able to make it up here and my sister's BF who won't know until the week before if he has to be overseas on business.

I have been nagging FH on a daily basis to harass his friends. It's making me crazy.

I think your list looks great...have some drinks while makeing the seating chart

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think your list looks great...have some drinks while makeing the seating chart

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ITA

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think your list looks great...have some drinks while makeing the seating chart

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ITA

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Oh - I've taken to drinking every night lately! My liver is going to be shot by the time November 14 rolls around!!!

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Posted by geegee827

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think your list looks great...have some drinks while makeing the seating chart

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ITA

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Oh - I've taken to drinking every night lately! My liver is going to be shot by the time November 14 rolls around!!!

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At leasr you will be one melow bride.

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Posted by Ray8183

Okay ladies, I am having a moment. I would like trumpets for arrival and a violist, flute and some other instrument for the hospitality and ceremony. I am thinking of working with a music school for budget reasons, so they could learn the songs I want to hear in my video. As for video I want raw footest. So ladies what do you think too over the top. Should I go in a different direction?

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Renay- thats a great idea! Do you know of any music schools? Or maybe a HS that has a band that is willing to do it.
I dont understand what you mean about the video though

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Posted by geegee827

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think your list looks great...have some drinks while makeing the seating chart

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ITA

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Oh - I've taken to drinking every night lately! My liver is going to be shot by the time November 14 rolls around!!!

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by geegee827

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think your list looks great...have some drinks while makeing the seating chart

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ITA

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Oh - I've taken to drinking every night lately! My liver is going to be shot by the time November 14 rolls around!!!

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I told FH we don't need to go to Hawaii - we might want to check into Betty Ford instead!

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Okay ladies, I am having a moment. I would like trumpets for arrival and a violist, flute and some other instrument for the hospitality and ceremony. I am thinking of working with a music school for budget reasons, so they could learn the songs I want to hear in my video. As for video I want raw footest. So ladies what do you think too over the top. Should I go in a different direction?

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Renay- thats a great idea! Do you know of any music schools? Or maybe a HS that has a band that is willing to do it.
I dont understand what you mean about the video though

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Renay - my cousin is a professional musician and both she and her husband also teach and have a dear friend who runs a music school. I'm not sure if the school teaches violin and flute though. I know they do guitar, vocals, piano and bass. I will ask if you'd like though.

hey, whatever you have to do to get through it! I say this as I sip my second glass of wine....

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Posted by MrsBlueRibbon

hey, whatever you have to do to get through it! I say this as I sip my second glass of wine....

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Totally agree....

I wish I was having something to drink now too..

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Okay ladies, I am having a moment. I would like trumpets for arrival and a violist, flute and some other instrument for the hospitality and ceremony. I am thinking of working with a music school for budget reasons, so they could learn the songs I want to hear in my video. As for video I want raw footest. So ladies what do you think too over the top. Should I go in a different direction?

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Renay- thats a great idea! Do you know of any music schools? Or maybe a HS that has a band that is willing to do it.
I dont understand what you mean about the video though

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I don't want anything special for video just straight shooting of the wedding. I want video of us seeing each other for the first time before the cermony because Charlie get very shy if I am not around. Then when we are in the bridal suite waiting to get marry I want the video guy to start filming as people are coming in and being seated. I want to know who was late for my wedding. That's what I mean by raw footest. I'm not sure if I am spelling it right. As all you ladies know spelling and grammar is not my strong suit.

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Okay ladies, I am having a moment. I would like trumpets for arrival and a violist, flute and some other instrument for the hospitality and ceremony. I am thinking of working with a music school for budget reasons, so they could learn the songs I want to hear in my video. As for video I want raw footest. So ladies what do you think too over the top. Should I go in a different direction?

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Renay- thats a great idea! Do you know of any music schools? Or maybe a HS that has a band that is willing to do it.
I dont understand what you mean about the video though

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I don't want anything special for video just straight shooting of the wedding. I want video of us seeing each other for the first time before the cermony because Charlie get very shy if I am not around. Then when we are in the bridal suite waiting to get marry I want the video guy to start filming as people are coming in and being seated. I want to know who was late for my wedding. That's what I mean by raw footest. I'm not sure if I am spelling it right. As all you ladies know spelling and grammar is not my strong suit.

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Someone just posted on BHB about video under $1000..I sure for rawfootage without editing you can get some

For the late comers

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Posted by Im getting Married

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

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Posted by Ray8183

Okay ladies, I am having a moment. I would like trumpets for arrival and a violist, flute and some other instrument for the hospitality and ceremony. I am thinking of working with a music school for budget reasons, so they could learn the songs I want to hear in my video. As for video I want raw footest. So ladies what do you think too over the top. Should I go in a different direction?

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Renay- thats a great idea! Do you know of any music schools? Or maybe a HS that has a band that is willing to do it.
I dont understand what you mean about the video though

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I don't want anything special for video just straight shooting of the wedding. I want video of us seeing each other for the first time before the cermony because Charlie get very shy if I am not around. Then when we are in the bridal suite waiting to get marry I want the video guy to start filming as people are coming in and being seated. I want to know who was late for my wedding. That's what I mean by raw footest. I'm not sure if I am spelling it right. As all you ladies know spelling and grammar is not my strong suit.

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Someone just posted on BHB about video under $1000..I sure for rawfootage without editing you can get some

For the late comers

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I am so bad.