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OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

JZNCK Posted:

OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

I am totally lost on this issue. I was raised to believe in god, and to choose my religion when I was older. My family isn't very religious, and i have never gone too church, or been baptised.. (I know it's bad).. but anyway.. My FI is Jewish, and I'm not sure who we have marry us? Do we get a justice of the peace or someonelse.. Can someone let me know. THANK YOU GUYS!!!!!!!

Jen_n_Dale Posted:

Re: OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

We are usinng Fr. Jim who was once a Catholic priest. He left the Catholic church to get married. If you are interested let me know.

JZNCK Posted:

Re: OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

OK, do you think that he could do it for us. i would love to talk to him. If he wouldn't mind, I would love his contact information. Is he in Long Island? thanks

teachertime Posted:

Re: OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

I also used Fr. Jim Wilshere and he was amazing! Also, if you want an interfaith ceremony I've heard great things about Cantor Cohen who is a vendor on this site.

My wedding ceremony was exactly what I wanted! Fr. Jim was funny and warm and he did exactly what we wanted. We both had previous marriages and children from our previous marriages that we wanted to be involved in the ceremony so we had a family vow part. After we did our vows and exchanged rings he called our boys up to the alter (they are 3 , 6 and 9) and he came around in front of us and knelt down in front of the boys and read beauiful family vows to them. Everyone was in tears and said it was the most amzing thing they ever saw.

Call him!!

Good luck!

Chris
JZNCK Posted:

Re: OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

Aww.. that sounds really nice.. Thanks a lot fo your help

Maribelle7777 Posted:

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first off, if you're not religous or if you're family isn't why do you feel it's bad not to be baptized? i don't think the Church says anymore if you're not baptized you're going to hell.

if religion is not a factor to you, why don't you let FH pick what sort of officiant? Why not a Rabbi, since he's Jewish?

Jen_n_Dale Posted:

Re: OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

You have FM!

Nora101004 Posted:

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SOME reform rabbi's will marry you.

jar823 Posted:

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I am using Cantor Harris Cohen. He is a vendor on the boards. He does jewish, interfaith, & all faith ceremonies. Here is his site.

Cantor Harris Cohen

He was the most reasonable priced, that I saw, and he happened to be the house clergy at my hall!

Good Luck!
dbcrosby Posted:

Re: OFFICIANT QUESTION!!! (PlEASE READ)

we are in the same situation however both families are highly religeous. i am jewish and he is catholic. after many fights between the families we comprimised on a cantor and deacon(the lesser of the two). FM if you need names.

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