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officiant tip??

StaceYums81 Posted:

officiant tip??

does the officiant get a tip if its just a random person who doesn't reallly know you - not a church or anything like that - getting married at the RH if so how much is appropriate?

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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i will be tipping my officiant as long as he does a good job ... probably $50 tip

StaceYums81 Posted:

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

i will be tipping my officiant as long as he does a good job ... probably $50 tip



when do u give it to them? at the end or with the cash payment?
GonnaBeeMrsG Posted:

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good question...I feel like they shouldnt except it LOL

jcreilly Posted:

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I would give it at the end!

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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yeah, def tip at the end of the ceremony

... just like you'd tip a waiter lol
scatteredx12 Posted:

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I got married at the RH and didn't know my officiant well, but we gave him a $50 tip after the ceremony when he was congratulating us before he left.

HSsweethearts Posted:

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I think if you have a private officiant who is already keeping all or most of the fee, there is no need to tip. For example, I think the Rabbi is costing close to $700, I won't tip him, that's all money in his pocket, but I might make a gift to the priest who is not getting the church donation

MikesBride2B Posted:

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Our rabbi is costing us $850...and all of it is going to her. I'm not going to give her more $$ on top of that even though she is wonderful.

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by HSsweethearts

I think if you have a private officiant who is already keeping all or most of the fee, there is no need to tip. For example, I think the Rabbi is costing close to $700, I won't tip him, that's all money in his pocket, but I might make a gift to the priest who is not getting the church donation



i agree that you don't NEED to tip ... but i think if someone does their job well, then they deserve it.

I also think it's good luck to tip the officiant ... just a weird thing that i probably made up ... but i feel like if they like you more, then they'll somehow give you better luck sort of like karma, i guess
MrsSx2 Posted:

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I think I read somewhere not to tip them, but I will tip mine...not sure how much though!

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