Oh boy... here we go...

n-------: [Offline IM sent 24m ago] hey love congrats on everything again, I miss you
n-------: [Offline IM sent 22m ago] i'm so happy 4 u 2 I wish you had room at your weddin, I remember how sad boys made you before him and I woulda loved 2 see it
n-------: [Offline IM sent 21m ago] but congrats love

just arrived in chicago, turned on my laptop and saw i got 3 IMs while i was 'away' from a friend's ex boyfriend. this guy and i haven't really talked in a long time, and havent seen eachother in maybe 2 years? i'd feel weird inviting him since he has a new gf, and since we never see eachother, even if we were friends back in HS when he was dating my best friend!

lol i guess he realized invites are out.... i'll probably just pretend i never got his IMs..

(ps - i never told him i didnt have room or anything, i never really said anything to him. i wonder if he spoke to one of our mutual friends )

Oh that is weird. Definitely don't acknowledge the FMs, easiest route there.

I have an ex who will say all sorts of weird things to me - I know this is an ex of your friend but he sounds like my ex. He'll make jokes via text message about when we are going away for the weekend. He did it on new years and FH saw it, and for about 10 mins, we had a pretty bad time He believed me though that we were not going anywhere, that he was joking, and Fh started to text him back as a joke, pretending he was me. the guy figured it out and hasn't called / texted me since.

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

Oh that is weird. Definitely don't acknowledge the FMs, easiest route there.

I have an ex who will say all sorts of weird things to me - I know this is an ex of your friend but he sounds like my ex. He'll make jokes via text message about when we are going away for the weekend. He did it on new years and FH saw it, and for about 10 mins, we had a pretty bad time He believed me though that we were not going anywhere, that he was joking, and Fh started to text him back as a joke, pretending he was me. the guy figured it out and hasn't called / texted me since.

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whoa!

I forgot I was on AIM and he IMed me again! I pretended I didnt get anything earlier, and i'm carefully trying to keep our convo away from the wedding.

i have to head out soon anyway, but i'll update if any info