Oh, great.

So one of my BMs isn't coming to my bachelorette party because she's having her 21st birthday party. Now, her birthday is next week, but she is having her party on the 20th, the only day I can have my bachelorette party to accomodate the OOT BMs. I'm a little pissed because I did tell her the date before. But none of her other friends can make it the 13th, so my bachelorette party gets the shaft.

One BM can't make the shower, one can't make the bachelorette party. I feel like my BP is really dropping the ball and no one cares

Venting more:

You know, I try to be sooo damn accomodating to everyone. I'm paying for everyone's hair, I gave my dividend miles to one BM for a flight to my shower. I just feel like what is the point because people aren't doing the same for me. I'm going out of my way for them, and I don't get that in return. It *****. I feel so sad right now.

Hang in there. You are going to have a great time regardless!! The sad feeling will pass. I understand that you are hurt right now but please don't let it bring your spirits down.

Awwwww, hang in there sweetie!! You'll have an awesome time either way!!!

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Posted by Maybride519


Hang in there. You are going to have a great time regardless!! The sad feeling will pass. I understand that you are hurt right now but please don't let it bring your spirits down.

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I just feel like I've been hurt so much during this planning process. It's hard to keep my spirits up.

Beth I know how you're feeling....as my shower RSVP's come in more no's than yes' & a number of my close friends can't make my bachelorette party....its such a let down & you feel this is such a huge event in your life, why don't those closest to you care?

As girls on here have told me, no matter what, you'll have a wonderful time with whomever is there & that is what is most important.

Trust me I unfortunatly know how you fell, my BM's are dropping like flies. It really *****.........

Make the best of it with your girls that are there. She'll be the one missing out.

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Posted by October Bliss

Aww Beth I'm sorry. I know both my BMs won't make my shower or the bachelorette party, (not that either have been planned yet - but neither live in NY) and it does stink!

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Yeah, I'm just feeling VERY alone right now.

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Posted by SweetCin704

Beth I know how you're feeling....as my shower RSVP's come in more no's than yes' & a number of my close friends can't make my bachelorette party....its such a let down & you feel this is such a huge event in your life, why don't those closest to you care?

As girls on here have told me, no matter what, you'll have a wonderful time with whomever is there & that is what is most important.

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I agree. We fall into this whirlwind of wedding planning and although it's the most important thing going on in our lives, unfortunately that's not the case for everyone around us. One of my BMs wasn't at my shower & won't be at my bachelorette party or rehearsal dinner.... I understand b/c she's in Fla & has things going on in life. Just try and enjoy. That's really what matters in the end ...... that you Enjoy this experience!!!!!!!!!!

awwwwwwwww Bethy I am sorry this stuff is happening and that you are feeling sad. It is sooo hard when you are doing something so huge and important in your life and the people you thought would be right there with you aren't. Just try to think about those who are with you and care and love you during the process.

Oh Beth!!!! We're all here for you!!! I had one of these days yesterday!!!!! I'm sorry to hear what's going on with your BP...it's just par for the course. I have learned that it's not easy to get everyone together at one time and it's not easy to make everyone (or even almost everyone) happy.

Just try not ot worry about who won't be there and concentrate on who will be there and HAVE FUN!!!

I know the feeling, so here are lots of

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Posted by Maybride519


Hang in there. You are going to have a great time regardless!! The sad feeling will pass. I understand that you are hurt right now but please don't let it bring your spirits down.

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I just feel like I've been hurt so much during this planning process. It's hard to keep my spirits up.

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Please don't let it get to you, the same exact thing happened to me. I know how you feel, but remember, not everyone is as giving and wonderful as you are. It's hard to stomach that, as I am pretty sure you give 150% to your friends. I know, because i am the same way and it hurts 10 times more to get shafted like that. Just remember that it is YOUR day and all of these events lead up to the best event of all- YOUR MARRIAGE......smile, it will get better. One monkey doesn't stop the show!