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Oh No!!!

Maria5117 Posted:

Oh No!!!

I was emailing people for addresses for my save the dates and accidentally emaliled the wrong 'Kristen'.... a girl I haven't spoken to in a years that I've only ever been acquaintances with (at best). We went to school together over three years ago. She responded with her address!! i don't want to invite her... We have way too many guests on our list as it is and need to cut some. Now what??

regy_k Posted:

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oh that is sooo embarrassing, and something that would totally happen to me.
my advice is not very nice: just ignore it
or, if u want to be nice just email her back saying that u emailed her by mistake and u sorry to have bothered her (altho this doesnt sound any better than the 1st advice)

I dont think I helped much. sorry
JillandJoe Posted:

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im mean...id ignore it....she prob won't think anything of it, your not that close anyway.

did u say in the email I am inviting you to my wedding...whats ur address? that might be tough and you would then need to tll her you emailed the wrong person.... jmo

if not then ignore it
StaceyWill Posted:

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I would be honest and explain that u made a boo-boo. If you guys weren't even that close, she'll probably laugh it off or say something like-'i thought it was a mistake, i couldn't believe i was invited', or something...JMO

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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i would just ignore it...she will probably forget about it anyway

Maria5117 Posted:

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Posted by stinenandy2010

i would just ignore it...she will probably forget about it anyway



Yea, but the thing is that she made conversation in her email back to me...ie. Hi? How are you? So don't I have to respond with something?
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by stinenandy2010

i would just ignore it...she will probably forget about it anyway



ITA but yikes how awkward
MarjorieFrank Posted:

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I would ignore it... She'll forget about it eventually. You can respond backw ith a simple response to her but just don't follow up re: her address.

JAAMS Posted:

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Did you say that you were e-mailing because your getting addresses together for STDs or did you just say that you needed her address w/o giving the reason?

If the latter, then I don't think it's a problem. If the former, maybe respond back and say 'Oh wait! This isn't Kristen (insert last name of correct Kristen)? I must've mixed up your e-mail addresses. '

or something of that nature
Maria5117 Posted:

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I did say why I needed it! I guess i'll respond to her but ignore the address part...{{{sigh}}} Thanks ladies!

jcreilly Posted:

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did you tell her it was for save the dates or that you just need her address ? if it was just asking her for address and then i would not worry about it

lizzie217 Posted:

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IGNORE
jcreilly Posted:

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Posted by jcreilly

did you tell her it was for save the dates or that you just need her address ? if it was just asking her for address and then i would not worry about it


just notice you did

if she brings it up tell her you where sorry but it was meet for someone else ( family member say) and that your wedding is just for family and close friends otherwise you would have loved to have there and that you and FH are on a budget
Kiki1103 Posted:

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Posted by JAAMS

Did you say that you were e-mailing because your getting addresses together for STDs or did you just say that you needed her address w/o giving the reason?

If the latter, then I don't think it's a problem. If the former, maybe respond back and say 'Oh wait! This isn't Kristen (insert last name of correct Kristen)? I must've mixed up your e-mail addresses. '

or something of that nature



Thats a good idea! This way you won't have to flat out say that she isn't invited and she will get the hint.
soontobecruz Posted:

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Posted by Kiki1103


Posted by JAAMS

Did you say that you were e-mailing because your getting addresses together for STDs or did you just say that you needed her address w/o giving the reason?

If the latter, then I don't think it's a problem. If the former, maybe respond back and say 'Oh wait! This isn't Kristen (insert last name of correct Kristen)? I must've mixed up your e-mail addresses. '

or something of that nature



Thats a good idea! This way you won't have to flat out say that she isn't invited and she will get the hint.



Ditto
angel1219eyez Posted:

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honestly not to be mean...but i would just ignore her

runnerbride1023 Posted:

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I've done that before (but with less important things, NWR).

Sorry I have no advice to offer. I will be extra careful now! I have been texting my friends or asking face to face. It takes longer but now I am scared I'll do the same thing!
Relish21 Posted:

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if in the future she says HEY wasn't I invited to your wedding.... just say I'm so sorry we have budget issues and kept it small. But You're welcome to come to the church!

StaceYums81 Posted:

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Posted by soontobecruz


Posted by Kiki1103


Posted by JAAMS

Did you say that you were e-mailing because your getting addresses together for STDs or did you just say that you needed her address w/o giving the reason?

If the latter, then I don't think it's a problem. If the former, maybe respond back and say 'Oh wait! This isn't Kristen (insert last name of correct Kristen)? I must've mixed up your e-mail addresses. '

or something of that nature



Thats a good idea! This way you won't have to flat out say that she isn't invited and she will get the hint.



Ditto



I would do this also....
Juhgail Posted:

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I think you can tell her it was a mistake.

I just dont think its right to ignore it.

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