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Oh NO!!

CrystalP81 Posted:

Oh NO!!

So, I just got a call from Lessing's (the caterer for the Vanderbilt @ Dowling, where I'm booked). Turns out the new president of Dowling College has decided that as of June 2011 there will be no more weddings or catered events allowed on the college grounds. So, uncheck book venue! I have to start the search all over again.
jenclifwed Posted:

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oh no! If your working with Lessings you should check the Bourn Mansion. My cousin had her wedding there and it was seriously amazing!
allornil Posted:

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wow really? sorry hon. trust me, you'll find somewhere amazing!

Ashley627 Posted:

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Posted by jenclifwed


oh no! If your working with Lessings you should check the Bourn Mansion. My cousin had her wedding there and it was seriously amazing!



lessings does have a few really beautiful places!
CrystalP81 Posted:

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I'll definitely check out the Bourne Mansion. The guy I talked to said he could work with the price there to get it close to the Dowling price. We'll see... Thanks for the support girls!

FutureMrsGTL Posted:

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Wowww Im sorry to hear that!

mara1017 Posted:

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Did you sign a contract? If so I would read it and see what the cancellation terms are. Obviousy there is nothing you can do to make them let you have your wedding there but if there was no clause allowing them to terminate I would use that to your advantage with other Lessing Properties.

I guess it is the lawyer speaking again.
allornil Posted:

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Posted by mara1017

Did you sign a contract? If so I would read it and see what the cancellation terms are. Obviousy there is nothing you can do to make them let you have your wedding there but if there was no clause allowing them to terminate I would use that to your advantage with other Lessing Properties.

I guess it is the lawyer speaking again.



hahah i'm so keeping you in my rolodex!
BellaRegina Posted:

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That stinks so bad!!! I'm so sorry...i'm not religious but, God works in mysterious ways!
Your gonna find an even better RH for cheaper!
Richiesgirl Posted:

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fdnybride163 Posted:

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How can they cancel your wedding when you already had it booked??? I would stomp and make a scene and tell them they have to either let you do it, or they have to let you use their other venues at no additional charge!!! thats BS

MrsJPH2012 Posted:

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oh my gosh thats terrible I'm so sorry! I hope you find something you like as much or better!

ksugar44 Posted:

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I'm so sorry that happened to you...to look on the bright side at least you have a lot of time to find something else.

gaby12886 Posted:

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ouch.. sorry to hear that!!! try to look on the bright side. at least you have a lot of time to find somewhere new!!
5272012 Posted:

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have u looked into their other properties?

rnesenoff Posted:

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I am so sorry - please let us know what you end up doing - i'm sure things will work out better - keep your head up :)

Watermelon5 Posted:

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Aww sorry that happened to you! hopefully you will find a place you love even more
Gerbera Posted:

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aw. I got married there!

Hope you find someplace new you will love just as much!

lessings' is great. I'm sure they will take care of you.
They can NOT control what Dowling does. And from personal experience I can tell you no matter how much stomping you do they won't change their mind.
VCanizalez Posted:

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Crashing...
Sorry chica!
Da sucks!!!!!!

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