so i have family that 'had' to be invited because i fthey got wind that others were invited and they werent, it would cause a family uproar.
so on my guestlist i had a column for estimated people...and i marked who i thought were definites...well a couple that i had marked as no responded YES. ughh...worst part is now i know his brother and wife and mother will come toooooo....thats 5 people that i thought were nooooo's that will be yes's
JAAMS
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MrsSoto
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aw that scks. sorry! hopefully some people that you thought were gonna be yes' but you would have rathered them be nos actually say no, if that makes sense lol
rdubs
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Ugh that stinks! I'm so afraid of those too!
MrsC2010
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oh no! thats what i am dreading too! fmil keeps adding people and saying but don't worry they won't come anyway. our list is getting huge! i really hope she's right about the ppl she said wont come
SummerBride10
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are they bringing their kids too ???????
20mrsc10
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ug i am going to be flipping out during the rsvp process
Future Mrs H
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I am dreading the invitation responses
Clover23
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ahhhh i did the same thing and i'm so afraid of that! hope it evens out ok!!!
CloudNine
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ya know i read so many stupid stories about RSVPS from other girls and for some strange reason i thought that none of that would happen to me! ha was i wrong
Rosie0613
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I'm afraid of the same thing! FH has about 25 people that he says won't respond yes but what if they do?
BriansWifey
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5 unexpected yes's are definitly a drain financially... Ughhh
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Posted by Rosie0613
I'm afraid of the same thing! FH has about 25 people that he says won't respond yes but what if they do?
me too!!!
to op: good luck! hope it evens out!!!
stinenandy2010
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don't worry you will get some no's....i got people who i were expecting to come that are not now. but i understand your frustration!
JayBee216
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UGHHHHHHHHH I am so terrified of that happening!!! Hopefully it will even itself out (but not at the expense of some guests that you REALLY want to come that will say no)!!!