OK - Guess it WAS tacky!!!!

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:06 PM

OK - Guess it WAS tacky!!!!

OK - I'm going for the individual invites after all!

Thanks for your help everyone!!!

JandJ1224 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:07 PM

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I think you need to give them each their own invitation. Just because they didn't come to your engagement party doesn't mean they woudln't come to the wedding. I vote for own invitiation!

October Bliss Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:09 PM

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You have to give them all their own invitation. Any thing else really seems like you don't care enough about them individually, OR that you don't really want them there.

sr081906 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:09 PM

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Personally, I think you should give each one an invitation. I know it costs more money but it does not look like you are having an open house and sent a 'mass mail' invitation. It will look more personalized. I have 4 in my case here at work.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:09 PM

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Hmmm.... Thats what I thought you ladies would say.... ok - I guess I'm going for individual invites - so when my parents freak out, I'll have you all talk to them!

sarahradio5 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:09 PM

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I'm in your same boat... I may have to eliminate some of the people I voted to the e-party (I had just started my job then, and I am NOT crazy about some of them. They didn't even bother to RSVP to my e-party anyway!)...

BUT. I think whoever you invite from work needs their own invitation. JMO.

jada2destiny Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:11 PM

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You definately have to give them each their own invitation. it's just wedding etiquette

MattsBride Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:13 PM

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Posted by sr081906

Personally, I think you should give each one an invitation. I know it costs more money but it does not look like you are having an open house and sent a 'mass mail' invitation. It will look more personalized. I have 4 in my case here at work.

I agree.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:14 PM

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Posted by jada2destiny

You definately have to give them each their own invitation. it's just wedding etiquette

AH - Etiquette Shmetiquette...

Thats why I asked you ladies - you always give good advice!

Guess individual invites it is....

sr081906 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:17 PM

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At least you want to invite all of them. I HAVE TO invite one of them because of 'office politic'. Everybody else will be miserable if I don't invite her.

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Feb 24, 2006 12:21 PM

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Posted by sr081906

At least you want to invite all of them. I HAVE TO invite one of them because of 'office politic'. Everybody else will be miserable if I don't invite her.

Well, I don't really want to either, but it's also office politic - I have a feeling half won't even show up... But if I don't invite, they will be pissy - except for my medical director - he wouldn't even know - he is like absent minded professor!