Ok I just need to vent a little and get some hugs

Original post by stinenandy2010

Dec 09, 2009 10:34 AM

So I'm starting to feel the pressure, I have so much going on and this weekend is a big weekend for me. I have my second fitting, my father will be seeing my dress for the first time! Then meeting my DOC to finalize everything. Then paying the florist, then paying the limos. Then I have to make up all the cry packs. Then I need to pack up all the boxes to drop off to the RH in two weeks. Then I need to make up all the OOT bags, then make up all the gifts, like wrap them and stuff. Also, need to go to the calligrapher for the placecards. O need to finalize the table seating. Still haven't found an RD dress. Need to write up do/do not play lists, Need to talk to the photographer about the day of. Wow, just wow.

Seriously I'm like overwhelmed, its craziness. Plus, FH is away on business and he's testing a new device that he designed, so he is so busy at work and away.

Ok, I feel slightly better.....I think I need to start drinking at work.

eta: i think i'm just nervous b/c this is my last weekend down to LI before the week of the wedding so everything needs to get done!

CappyGirl Posted: Dec 09, 2009 10:47 AM

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YOU CAN DO IT!!! Keep it together, breathe, it will all get done.

es2189 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 10:52 AM

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good luck with everything!!!!

stinenandy2010 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 10:55 AM

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Posted by APastries2010

will it help if i send you some of my DJ lists?

that would be helpful! thanks ali!

Future Mrs P Posted: Dec 09, 2009 10:58 AM

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It will all work out not to worry!!!

JenBill61210 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 10:59 AM

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breathe, it seems overwhelming but just take one thing at at time

halfbaked Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:00 AM

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Don't worry- you'll get it all done. Just take it one task at a time!

Becca2010 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:02 AM

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Seriously, have a little drink! Just something small to take the edge off!
If you don't want to do that, wait until later when you've finished everything for the day and you need to relax.

Hang in there kiddo, you're going to be okay!

RitasEngaged Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:11 AM

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awww i can only imagine how you are feeling

sugarnspice Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:12 AM

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you have fm

Its2Snappy Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:15 AM

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= Smiley hug, because these are all good things! Take a deep breath and set a schedule to get everything done. Like do this one day, another thing another day, that way it won't feel like SO much.

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:17 AM

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Awwww dont worry everything will fall into place

Spring143 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:22 AM

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its good that you have a list of all the things you need to get done and it will feel great to cross them off when you did them!!
Relax and have fun with everything you need to do. Enjoy it!!
major hugs coming your way from me!!

MrsC2010 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:28 AM

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aww don't worry christine! everything will be great!!

Alyssa79 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:38 AM

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shelbylove918 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 11:39 AM

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aww sweetie.. its def overwhlming but just think in a month you will be married to the love of your life.. Just focus on the positive and you will get through it.. All the work will pay off in the long run.. :)

queensbride2010 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 12:12 PM

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Breath, take it one item at a time and try to ask for help if you can. I'm sure its a bit overwhelming, but try to relax as much as possible, even if that means a few drinks

ourwedding9510 Posted: Dec 09, 2009 12:17 PM

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Just breath girl! Calm down and take one step at a time! If you need help ask a friend or maybe a bridesmaid to come and help you with some things. Everything will be BEAUTIFUL on your day and we're here if you need to just let it out.