Ok I need to vent..

mable Posted: Dec 09, 2005 10:36 AM

Ok I need to vent..

Ok so, yes I am a very happily married woman but I have found out that one of my bridesmaids is now dating my ex boyfriend before my husband... and they keep saying well we don't want you to be mad and are you ok w/ it..
What am I going to do.. I just think it is really weird and why would you want to.. knowing all that went on w/ us..
Call me crazy but I thought there was some kind of thing between girl friends that you don't do that..
Ok just had to let that out..

Jen2999 Posted: Dec 09, 2005 10:37 AM

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Oh man I wouldnt like that either..

ICK.

mable Posted: Dec 09, 2005 10:41 AM

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See its really weird right..
and when I was w/ this person she knew all I MEAN EVERYTHING!!!!

Jen2999 Posted: Dec 09, 2005 10:46 AM

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Posted by mable

See its really weird right..
and when I was w/ this person she knew all I MEAN EVERYTHING!!!!

Yea absolutely not. I think it is so tacky of your friend. What are her intentions with him?

ckgmwedding Posted: Dec 09, 2005 10:47 AM

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ICK! That is just weird.... I would be upset- just because of all I shared with my girlfriend about him and now she of course will tell him about all of it. Just weird...

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Dec 09, 2005 11:04 AM

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omg i'd be upset too

103005FallBride Posted: Dec 09, 2005 11:16 AM

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It's akward, but I wouldn't let it bother you. Enjoy the beautiful marriage you have...and the little one inside.
Somethings are just meant to be. Maybe they're meant for each other. Wish them well and enjoy your new beautiful life with your husband and your little girl.

mable Posted: Dec 09, 2005 11:22 AM

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Mrs. Powell Posted: Dec 09, 2005 11:36 AM

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It is weird but I would not even ache my heart over that knowing that I am happily married to the love of my life.

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Dec 09, 2005 12:24 PM

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I wouldn't like that either. and IMO, anyone who says they don't mind a friend dating an ex is lying!

littlebookworm4 Posted: Dec 09, 2005 12:37 PM

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I wouldn't be to happy about that one either.

Mrs.Z Posted: Dec 09, 2005 12:39 PM

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there is an unwritten law,
1-dont date friends ex's, no matter how long its been.
2-dont date friends family, just to sticky.
I would not be happy either.

hbradio Posted: Dec 09, 2005 07:37 PM

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I would feel the same as you. Thats just something you dont do. I think you have every right to feel the way you do - married or not. Try to focus on your new marriage and your new baby to come - all positive things in your life!

WedHead Posted: Dec 10, 2005 10:03 AM

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Yuck - I think that's very immature of her. Quite honestly, IMO that's high school behavior - and even then it wasn't acceptable.

But, on the bright side, she's clearly still in the dating game and desperate enough to go for your leftovers and you're happily married with a little girl on the way - what's better than that?!

mable Posted: Dec 11, 2005 09:41 PM

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dbonilla Posted: Dec 11, 2005 09:43 PM

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Posted by 103005FallBride

It's akward, but I wouldn't let it bother you. Enjoy the beautiful marriage you have...and the little one inside.
Somethings are just meant to be. Maybe they're meant for each other. Wish them well and enjoy your new beautiful life with your husband and your little girl.

Well said! While I don't think I would be upset, per se, I think I would feel a lil awkward about the situation.

12-3Princess Posted: Dec 11, 2005 10:14 PM

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ohhhh gaaaaad. so annoying! - let me tell you, i understand that it has NOTHING to do with you still having feelings for him (which is why that 'but you're married now' justification doesn't fly)... it has to do with friends don't do that to each other. period.

from my own experience, I'd say, she sounds desperate - i'd pity her. ugh.