OK IM SO LOST

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:40 AM

OK IM SO LOST

with 20-something days left.. i dont know what needs to be done. im sititng here wondering.... what is left????????

HELP

GR2010 Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:41 AM

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Do you have the mother of all lists??? Just go through it... or maybe just go through your day from start to finish in your head and write down anything you think of that hasn't been done yet.

Clover23 Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:42 AM

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escort cards? seating arrangements? programs? menu? marriage license?

little j Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:42 AM

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start with your 'packing listss'...like WHAT NEEDS TO BE BROUGTH TO JT? THE CHURCH? THE HOTEL? ETC>..and just work backwards!

i know...im stressing out toooooo

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:44 AM

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yea we need marriage license and rings.. cant get that til this week.

i need fg basket and pillow. but i want something PURPLE.... but part of me says fk it and go to wrap with us and get the set for 20$..cuz neither of them will end up walking down

do i want to spend a sunday putting ribbon on bubbles??? thatll take me 10 min...

i just feel theres soo much more i need to be doing..and in the city that i shoudl just do during the week.......

ugh

Lil OC Posted: Mar 28, 2010 10:58 AM

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whatever u need help with lemme know, I'm approx 18 steps away! I'm glad to help! And I'm off all week pretty much!

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:00 AM

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ty!! i just dont knwo what need to be done

i DID find petalcones at michaels yesterday..

they are gold.....my colors are purple and diamonds.. but who cares right?

i mean scafolding isnt part of my theme and my church is ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL SCAFOLDING!

Lil OC Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:05 AM

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gold is neutral so u can def use the gold petalcones. plus the gold will match the inside of the church! r u doing purple petals? bc if so, then that will look beautiful together! very regal looking!

You need to make 2 boxes:
1 box of all the stuff going to the church--bubbles, petalcones, rb pillow, fg basket, programs (if ur doing) and all the stuff ur koumbara has

the other box: JT stuff---escort cards, menus (if ur doing), cake topper, cake knife, toasting flutes, etc.

laurenandmike618 Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:13 AM

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oh wow you're only 20+ days away?? how come it says your wedding is in july?? you like to throw pple off?

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:14 AM

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no i hate people lol

regy_k Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:27 AM

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where are u getting ready? at ur mom's?
so also make a box of things to go there: hair piece, shoes, DOJ, underwear, bra (if ur wearing one), toiletries, perfume -- all that u need to be purdy and dressed

also, did u start working on ur timeline? I think that is what the most important right now to work on and that will also show u what u need during each leg of the day

grkbarbie Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:28 AM

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no im getting married here.. but i feel like imeveryones fkn parent

I have to set up hair appts for my mom and aunt.. i have to take them to get their naails done . i have to direct every1 where to go. its soo fkn annoying

MrsSoto Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:30 AM

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what helped me was to organize my to do list by vendors so before i went to each vendor for our final appointment, i looked at the list see anything i had to ask/tell them, bring to them and the final payment date and amount

or if was things like for me to wear, i listed it under attire, etc.

okay i know that wont help you if you already dont know what theres left but once you put it in your mind like that, it might ne easier.

if you need help, let me know.

regy_k Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:32 AM

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u and me both. my mom calls almlost every day to tell me yet another thing I need to take care of and to put on 'THE LIST'

so that is why u need to have a written out time line, at least it will give some order to everything u need to do

let me know if u need help with that, I am a great list writer lol

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Mar 28, 2010 11:43 AM

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I had a box with my dress stuff and accessories.

A box for stuff I forgot to bring to the hall

A box of stuff I needed to bring to the hotel.

I had a church list

A hall list

and as we were going through my day I assigned little details to my DOC and family members. Everything went without a hitch.