ok is this weird?..a michi story

so i m talking to this guy online all the time, everyday practically on the phone and online, i m definitly into him but taking everything with a grain of salt being i dont know him in person yet...so he lives out of state so friday he is driving to take me out to dinner, he leaves me a sweet message the other day then i dont hear back from him when i returned his calls.. so today we finally talk and he says 'yeah i'm a dork, but wanted to see if i was able not to talk to u, if things go bad next weekend, i'm sure there not, but wanted to see if i was able to do it'


i didnt know what to say to that so i just said um ok..talk about pressure!! lol.. i dont know what to think lol

Sounds like he is insecure and nervous. Or lying and married with three kids… I would have just kinda blown it off also. See how the date goes. No matter what happens make sure you have fun!

It sounds a little weird to me and I think it's a sign if he's playing games (in a way) and you haven't met yet.

It would have been sweet if he said he was nervous about meeting and hope you two click b/c you are becoming part of his daily life. But to blow you off for a couple of days to see if he could get on without you is odd.

Ok -- undoubtedly its a weird story. But in some strange way I can understand where the guy is coming from

As someone who met their DH thru the internet, its a very scary prospect when you finally meet. Especially if you've communicated for awhile and started really caring about someone (to a point) thru the emails and calls. You start to think 'well what if we meet and we don't click - -then you cannot go back to phone calls and emails' And that had already become a big part of your life , so you start to speculate how much you'll 'miss' the internet/calls if it DOESN'T work out. I can remember feeling the exact same way the days before I finally met my husband. That I would REALLY miss chatting online with him if we didn't get along in person, b/c I knew that if we didn't click in person, it could never go back to 'the way is used to be' so to speak

I do think he could have said it better; or not said it at all. But I'm sure he's just nervous, and you don't need to feel any pressure!!

Just have fun

Yeah, Michi...weirdo alert!!!!!

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Posted by FeliciaDA

Ok -- undoubtedly its a weird story. But in some strange way I can understand where the guy is coming from

As someone who met their DH thru the internet, its a very scary prospect when you finally meet. Especially if you've communicated for awhile and started really caring about someone (to a point) thru the emails and calls. You start to think 'well what if we meet and we don't click - -then you cannot go back to phone calls and emails' And that had already become a big part of your life , so you start to speculate how much you'll 'miss' the internet/calls if it DOESN'T work out. I can remember feeling the exact same way the days before I finally met my husband. That I would REALLY miss chatting online with him if we didn't get along in person, b/c I knew that if we didn't click in person, it could never go back to 'the way is used to be' so to speak

I do think he could have said it better; or not said it at all. But I'm sure he's just nervous, and you don't need to feel any pressure!!

Just have fun

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I agree here. I have met people on the internet who I thought were awesome -- online and on the phone. Then you meet and it's like -- oh jeez, this is NOT what I expected...and you part forever. BUT I too met hubby throught he net (match.com) and had no expectations after having had a few let-downs. Turns out he is the BEST thing that has ever happened to me. Because if the chelistry just isn't there, you can't force it. So maybe he has had a few disappointments and is afraid that things won't work out, and is afraid to lose what he has with you.
I say, meet him, see how it goes, and then you will know if he was sincere or not.

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!