ok it's starting ----already

Sunflower08 Posted: Oct 17, 2006 05:45 PM

ok it's starting ----already

So people are already telling who and who not to invite to the wedding ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I have more than a year and a half.

Can I enjoy the engagement party first and maybe register before I get told what to do

tdebe Posted: Oct 17, 2006 05:52 PM

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You'd think there'd be some kind of blissful period where you think you can just make all kinds of plans and dream about your wedding before people start putting in their two cents, but no. Someone just has to say something and burst that happy, idealistic bubble where the wedding is just about the bride and groom and not about who's happy or not.

Oh well. In most cases they're just trying to help and mean know harm, but there are always exceptions.

Sunflower08 Posted: Oct 17, 2006 05:57 PM

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I know - - - -but was hoping to have a stress free wedding. ha ha ha ha - - - -i thought I'd be the first to defeat the chaos

tdebe Posted: Oct 17, 2006 06:00 PM

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I don't know anyone who's had a stress free wedding, and if someone's said that they have, they're probably lying and if they're not lying, then I'm super jealous and must be taught the secret of their ways

MikeandJess Posted: Oct 17, 2006 06:12 PM

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On the bright side you have the cutest puppy ever! Is s/he yours?

kimnsteve Posted: Oct 18, 2006 08:34 AM

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please the day i got engaged i was told i that i couldnt invite certain people to the wedding becasue FSIL didnt get along with them! helllooooo it's our wedding ...and guess what i sent a STD to them already ...lol

Dana Z to Be Posted: Oct 18, 2006 10:11 AM

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Posted by kimnsteve

FSIL didnt get along with them! helllooooo it's our wedding ...and guess what i sent a STD to them already ...lol

Hahahahah... I think this happens to us all. I was told who to invite and who not to invite a week after we got he hall. It was a very annoying situation to be in.

Sunflower08 Posted: Oct 20, 2006 04:29 PM

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I guess we just grin and bare it......and it's my day....I choose who can attend. Let the deep breathing exercising begin ha ha ha ha ha

Soon2BeMrs Posted: Oct 20, 2006 04:40 PM

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Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Oct 20, 2006 05:34 PM

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I got one better- I was told already who my bridal party is supposed to be!!!!

nifheim Posted: Oct 20, 2006 09:23 PM

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Bridal party eeeks, to me thats the hardest especially when you don't have that many close friends.

Get the input then process it and then either say hey thats a good idea or if its not then block it out. Familys just love to be in the middle of things.