my sister is going to be my matron of honor. right now me and her r not talking, cuz of her stupid husband. im going on feb. 28 with my bms and lkook at dresses. i sent out an email to make sure who was going, so i could make the appoinments. she read the email and never wrote back. she told my other sister she wasn't coming cuz we r not talking. she also said she does not wanna be in my wedding and she is pulling her kids out also. they would of been the fg and rb. what do i do leave it alone and hope she gets over it and changes her mind. or do i replace her and the kids.this is bothering me soo bad that i cry everyday. i wrote her a letter and said sorry and she will not accept it. please give me advice. thanks girls....
RitasEngaged
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i have 5 sisters and we fight all the time.
I don't know what your fight was about but i would honestly let it blow over.
she can always go seperately to get her dress
grrulz
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I am sorry this is the case! it will really hurt me if my sister didn't want to be my MOH but seriously this title is really serious and you don't want someone that changes minds all the time your best bet is to either have another MOH meaning 2 MOH's or just discard your sister and have someone who is really close to you after her I know this is a family issue so you will ultimately do what you feel is right but good luck
Bride825
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i wouldnt jump into asking someone else just yet....give it some more time and send out some more apologies....hope everything works out
Jen2525
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well i'm not sure what the fight was about so not sure how much i can help but you girls are sisters so i would ask her if the two of you can meet up one day to talk. You can't make her be in the party but you can atleast talk to her and see what will make things better. Its a tough situation though and i hope you guys can resolve everything......good luck
CristinanBen2010
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I think you should sit down and have a talk with your sister so you can firgure things out. Im sure it will all work out in the end. I wouldnt ask someone else to fill her or her childrens spots yet. She is just probably as upset as you are.
SummerBride10
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Definatly try to talk to her. If that doesnt work, wait a month or so, let her cool off and try again. I hope it works out for you and keep us updated!
Sandradv121
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You should leave it be. Give it some time to blow over, than suggest somewhere to meet (Starbucks, a restaurant, the mall whereever) and say sorry in person. I don't know what happened b/w you and her, but you both are siblings and siblings should forgive each other. She just needs to calm down and relax.
Good luck with everything.
christine2010
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i totally agree with the others. give it a little time. do what you want with your other bridesmaids & try to have a good time. but remember their dress don't take that long to come in so u do have time before u have to order.
my sister & i used to disagree all the time & things just usually worked them self out with time.
