My FBIL has a girlfriend they have been dating since January and we have been hanging out a lot lately. I don't know if I should ask her to be a BM because what if they break up? I want her to be a BM but I just don't want there to be any kind of problems down the road. What should I do???
I'm gonna go with no unless you know they're really serious...because if they break up down the line that would be messy...
I WOULD SAY NOT TO ASK HER YOU'VE ONLY KNOWN HER FOR A FEW MONTHS JMO
To be on the safe side ...no...unless you know for sure he has plans of proposing anytime soon it will be easier for all involved in it all goes south!!!lol
LOL She told me they are talking about getting engaged after our wedding so in January. I don't know if it's just talk to they are serious.
Posted by ace730
I would also go with no because it could be akward. You could always ask her to do a reading instead and then if something happens, she can be more easily replaced.
like the other girls said, its a no, unless she is dropping hints to you that she wants to be a BM ...
I am go with no too. I asked Fh is my moh who is my cousin if her boyfriend can be a GM and the first thing he said was 'what happens if they are not together by then' They just broke up a last week. So I would say no it may get messy.
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by ace730
I would also go with no because it could be akward. You could always ask her to do a reading instead and then if something happens, she can be more easily replaced.
That's a really good idea! I didn't think of that! Thanks!
Posted by shalice
like the other girls said, its a no, unless she is dropping hints to you that she wants to be a BM ...
Posted by evewedsjc
Posted by NickandTara426
Posted by ace730
I would also go with no because it could be akward. You could always ask her to do a reading instead and then if something happens, she can be more easily replaced.
That's a really good idea! I didn't think of that! Thanks!
Good idea ...go with the reading...she will still be included...i was talking about getting engaged to FH way before he ever did propose lol!!!
