OK ladies...62 days and I need HELP!

FH wants me to make a 'To Do' list so we can figure out what left needs to be done. I thought 'the list' would help me, but it's too general for what I need!

what the hell am I doing! LOL I can't even remember what I WANT to do at this shindig! I think I am having a bridal meltdown...too overwhelming!

I found the checkoff list on the Knot to be fairly helpful, have you used that?

(The only downside is it doesn't cover DIY projects!!)

Since Im 193 days away, I'll give you my little mental checklist...its unorganized but maybe you missed something along the way and it'll help you...

FH
Church Pre/Cana etc/ceremony music/petal cones/bubbles/rice etc
marriage license
wedding rings
Hall/place cards/table numbers/bathroom baskets/slipper basket/favors/pashmina wraps
photo/video
flowers centerpieces etc
limos
BM dresses
Your dress
hair
make-up
DJ/walk-in songs, first dance songs etc
honeymoon
rehearsal dinner
bridal party gifts
parent gifts
FH gift if exchanging
hotel for the night 'of'

If I think of something else I'll add it...

Here is my very detailed list... I hope it helps and not overwhelms you.

Set Date -4/28/06
Set Budget -way over
Prepare preliminary Guest list -did that on wedding channel.com
I have 130 people to date
Engagement Announcements -we did not do
Ceremony Site/Church-Maria Regina RC, Seaford, NY
Officiator -Father Peter
Reception Site -Riviera Massapequa, NY
Photographer -Duet
Video grapher-Duet
Band/DJ – FM Entertainment
Ceremony Musicians -Comes with Church
Select & Ask Bridal Party -Done
Purchase Wedding Insurance -Not doing?
*Gather requirements for religious ceremony (baptismal certificates) - Done
Precana– Completed as of 11/09/05
***Apply for passports and all travel necessities: MUST DO THIS WEEK..visas, vaccines, etc No Honeymoon out of Country
Block off hotel rooms for OOT Guests – Have 2 choices Best Western in Massapequa and Residence Inn-Marriott. -DONE
Select stores, make list, & register – registered at BBB, Macys, and Fortunoff’s -Done
*Attend shower and bachelorette party-Completed 11/13/05
Shop for and order Bridesmaids Gowns –Completed RK Bridal
Shop for and order Flower girl(s) Dress (es)-Done
*MOB & MOG order gowns – On their own.
cake serving set HAVE
toasting flutes HAVE
ring pillow -Completed
Host BM luncheon -Done
HAVE Slippers basket – started this week will finish
Makeup trials – HAVE Michelle from Defining Moments
Site for Engagement Photos – N/A
Purchased headpiece and veil(s)-DONE
Prepare STD guest list – Done
*Send out wedding announcements to local paper -?
Send out STDs- Done
Book Florist –Done
Select and order Invitations – DONE
****Shop for and order wedding rings – MUST DO
Schedule Hair trial -Done and booked
Set aside time to write thank you notes for shower gifts -Done
Book wedding day transportation (limos) - Done
Finalize Guest list - Done
*Book Honeymoon –will do this week
*Plan ceremony: writing vows, music selections,
Plan back up locations for photo sessions in case of rain -Hotel
*Shop for,order/make favors -DONE :)
*Purchase Bridal Party gifts, parents gifts -No later than March
*Purchase Bride's shoes-DONE
***undergarments, stockings, garters, and jewelry -No later than 2nd week in March
***ceremony needs unity candle
bubbles NEED
*Purchase Guestbook for reception -will have by March
*Order Tuxes -THIS WEEK!
*Plan reception: first dance song selection, parent dances, place cards, place card holders, cake topper, seating arrangements, etc (do with DJ by winter) *Select and order wedding cake - Feb
*Schedule ceremony rehearsal- April 27 @7
****Book rehearsal dinner site and send out invites -after Jan booking
*Prepare OOT welcome baskets -must get supplies this week
*cigar table- FH taking care of remind in January to start if not finished. Cigars, cutting things, etc..
*Must-Take photo list -Prepare and have by this week
*Do not play/must play lists for DJ/Band -Prepare and have by March
*Purchase or make ceremony programs - must do
Schedule day of hair, makeup, and nail apt for Bride -Done
Mail out invitations -DONE
*Finalize menus, song selections, timelines, and all details with all vendors -April
*Attend gown fittings –LINA 2nd March 4th
*Break in wedding day shoes - week of April when I am off
*Make sure you have something old, new, blue, etc - April
*Call guests who have not RSVP'd – will do week of March 20th
*Obtain Marriage License -Beginning of April
*Shop & pack for Honeymoon N/A until May
*Prepare Day-of Timeline and give a copy to each vendor along with copies of must-take photo lists, etc -Will complete March/April
*Confirm all final payments, schedule, pick up times, and head count, etc with all vendors -April Vacation
*Confirm HM reservations and travel arrangements -April Vacation for June

******Create a wedding bag to gather your ceremony accessories (marriage license, and Candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport.
*******Prepare a reception bag for accessories such as guest books, cameras, toasting goblets, cake toppers, etc., and assign someone to transport
******Prepare day-of emergency kit -Sewing kit, aspirin, etc...
*Prepare any speeches or toasts - rehearsal dinner speech
*Place tips for each vendor in envelopes - Dad doing day of wedding.

Again this is detailed so I hope it helps. I got it from someone on here. Gotta give cred