OK let's turn the tables

Niecey Posted: Jan 28, 2003 01:38 PM

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DH doesn't keep in touch with any of his ex's...but he never really did even before me...so that was good.

He has female friends but mostly co-workers. We actually have mutual friends that he has hooked up with in the past but nothing was serious. (I had a hard time with it when we first started dating but now I could care less...doesn't bother me...guess I am more secure.)

jennbaby Posted: Jan 28, 2003 01:49 PM

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lisat

Shamee Posted: Jan 28, 2003 01:52 PM

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He's sort of friends with his 1st girlfriend and that's only because we're good friends with her sister - so it's sort of a package deal. Plus, she's married so I could care.

I'm still friends with some guy I dated in high school, although I think he's a total nerd now.

Jenny5150 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 02:12 PM

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Kevin used to correspond through email with his ex-wife. She would basically email him and he would reply, nothing serious. (I should add that she is friends with many of his friends, so it's hard to just cut her out of his life.) One day she asked him to meet her in the city for lunch or dinner and I told him that if their friendship should extend beyound email, than it shouldn't be a problem for me to meet her. (Hey, I've met all of his other 'friends', why should she be any different!?!) Apparently she wasn't ready to meet me.

Needless to say, Kevin decided it was best to end contact, unless it was in reference to their annulment.

jennbaby Posted: Jan 28, 2003 02:13 PM

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So Jenny, she wanted more than dinner than maybe?

Betty Posted: Jan 28, 2003 02:27 PM

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NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

He doesn't speak to any of them

sept20yay! Posted: Jan 28, 2003 02:29 PM

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No and thank G-d!

heidla Posted: Jan 28, 2003 02:33 PM

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My FH keeps in touch with several ex's. I work with two girls he had flings with ( we use to work in the same place)and his Woman of Honor is an Ex. I have to admit that it took me a while before I was comfortable with all of his female friends, but I know that I have nothing to worry about he loves me.

Jenny5150 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 02:42 PM

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Jenn,
I think she was regretting the fact that they got a divorce. I told Kevin from the beginning that she still had feelings for him. He didn't agree with me (Hey what do I know...I'm only a chick!?! ) I don't know what her motives were for asking him to dinner, but I felt it was inappropriate to ask him and not invite me (Kevin and I were together over 2 years at that point). Thankfully, Kevin understood and agreed. He ended contact on his own. My only request was that if he was to continue the friendship, as insignificant as it might be, I was to meet her.

Honestly, I would like to meet her. I think it would answer a lot of my curiosities.

nrvbrd Posted: Jan 28, 2003 03:08 PM

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FH only had 1 gf before me and when we broke up for 6 months he dated someone else. (together 9 1/2 years)

He says he does not keep in touch so I believe him.

Sassy Posted: Jan 28, 2003 03:12 PM

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only his child's mama Nothing I can do about that one. But she actually is very decent w/our situation, and we have no problems with his son and taking him whenever we want, so it's not a bad situation at all

Other than that, no way, and it better stay that way

ILT1221 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 04:02 PM

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no one yell at me...

i was one of those people that still keep in touch with an ex-boyfriend and myhusband still keeps in touch with his ex. But i admit it bothers me. But I like her.

DrmnBlnd Posted: Jan 28, 2003 04:12 PM

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Mine doesn't.....he had bad break-ups with both of them....

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jan 28, 2003 04:48 PM

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he does not!! I used to before we got married and he used to say....... you want me to start talking to Lori again? LOL

He doesnt speak to any ex's
he is a good lil boy

bride04 Posted: Jan 28, 2003 05:48 PM

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he used to occassionally, but not anymore. it's been years and years since they broke up. he might still see her around town every now and again, but they don't keep in touch really.

christy Posted: Jan 28, 2003 06:36 PM

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Fh's last girlfriend was 9 years ago. I dont know if he even remembers her! LOL

DaniRN Posted: Jan 28, 2003 06:52 PM

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Thank god mine doesn't!

Robeymuse Posted: Jan 28, 2003 07:38 PM

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He does, One is an ex from HS so no big deal. But the other one is one of his closest friends. They only dated 9 months and they are still close. She knows about me but has successfully avoided meeting me for the past year and a half. So I told him, I didn't feel comfortable with him going to lunch with her and such if I hadn't met her. So now I am going to meet her when I move there.
She tried to break us up when we first got together by telling him that long distance never works out, yada yada yada. But he told her he loved me (which he never told her) and that put an end to it.