Ok, next topic, shy FH, VERY SHY ONE.....

prncssrachel Posted: Jul 07, 2003 01:16 AM

Ok, next topic, shy FH, VERY SHY ONE.....

I honestly don't know what to do with him sometimes. He's SOOOOOOOOOOOOO friggin shy that he has not made one friend in MA since last August. He has friends at work that he hangs out with there, but he is tooooo shy to make plans to do anything with any of them. Since moving back to NY, I am in the total mode to meet new people and make new friends, and JT is just so shy he has a hard time with all of it. I mean, once he gets comfortable, you cannot shut him up and he is hilarious, but to get him to that point is like pulling teeth. Does anyone else have an FH like this? And what can I do to get him to loosen up a bit?

prncssrachel Posted: Jul 07, 2003 01:19 AM

Re: Ok, next topic, shy FH, VERY SHY ONE.....

And just for the record, I tried spiking his drink to loosen him up , but he caught on

LisaT Posted: Jul 07, 2003 01:21 AM

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well there goes my suggestion

prncssrachel Posted: Jul 07, 2003 01:21 AM

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Great minds think alike!

WithThisRing Posted: Jul 07, 2003 01:28 AM

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kick him in the shins

maybe it just takes him a little longer to open up to people. its hard to be comfy with people you dont know.

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 07, 2003 01:30 AM

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lol...... lets round them up and stick them in a room alone.. make them talk

same thing with mike.. he talks to people at work, but hang out wth them outside of it... no. he'd never ask..

luckily we have icehockey and volleyball friends... maybe he can join a sport or something?