ok NOVEMBER brides, how about an updated to do list??!!!

with our month right around the corner i figured I would check in with you girls to see what you have left to do??

Too much!!!

Dress fitting - THIS SATURDAY!!!!

need two more BM gifts and all of the groomsmen and parent gifts

purchase yarmulkes

purchase ketubah

go for marriage license

do programs

make my baskets for the dried leafs scattered down the aisle, yarmulkes and programs

tuxes for the kids in the BP and for FH

menu, linens and other decor

I know there's more that I'm just not thinking of right now

My first fitting which is Oct 18th
Shoes
Earrings
BP and parent gifts
Programs (which I have, I just need to print them)
Marriage License
Menu
Make last payments to vendors
Favors (already picked out just need to order them, they take 3-5 days to come in)

There may be more but I think that's it for now, I will add more if I can think of anything else.

Fittings
BM Fittings
Earrings for the BM
Finalize with the vendors
Marriage License
Honeymoon shopping
Undergarments for my dress

I am sure that I am leaving out a TON of things!!


HELP!!!

uhm let's see...
1. I have my second fitting and hopefully last on 10/10
2. meet with the DJ the last week of Oct.
3. meet with the photographers
4. order places cards at the beginning of Nov.

1st fitting - TOMORROW!!
make place cards
make programs
seating arrangements
finalize EVERYTHING
see sample centerpiece on 10/5

I think I am in pretty good shape. here is my to do list:

2 more fittings scheduled
Select menu this weekend at the hall & print up menus
Buy components for OOT bags
Drop off labeled OOT bags at hotel
Buy disposable video camera for HM
Something old & borrowed - still need these!
Gift for 1 more groomsman

Book flowers
Book Limo
Book rehearsal diner
Marriage license
2nd fitting Oct 6th and pick up veil
Finalize menu, cake
Placecards
Still waiting for BM dress to come in for 1st fitting
Finish ordering tux's
get in touch with DJ
pick our song and music for reception
Pick and order wedding favors
Bridal party gifts
As you can see I have lots to do

1- Second fitting is this w/e - 2 more after that
2- put favors together - doing some of that this w/e
3- programs
4- menus (if i decide to do them)
5- book caterer for RD
6- finalize menu
7- GM gifts

I think that's it, not too bad.

-buy strapless bra
-make music list
-see sample of CP
-schedule manicure/pedicure
-marriage license
-two more fittings
-have favors assembled
-prepare gratuity envelopes
-finalize menu, choose cake
-make final payments
-drop off stuff at the hall (favors, photo cube)
-mail hair pieces to tara le for clips

Second fitting next monday
Going over music with DJ
Hair/Makeup trial this Sat. (I'm a little late!)
Place cards/table plans
Final Payments
Get shoes

Shop for and order Flowergirl(s) Dress(es)
MOB order gown
Book Florist
Get Wedding Rings Engraved
Plan ceremony: writing vows, music selections, readings, etc
Shop for, order/make favors
Purchase Bridal Party gifts, parents gifts
Purchase Bride's undergarments, stockings, garters
Purchasemake cake serving set, ring pillow, & any other ceremony needs (unity candle, tossing petals, etc)
Purchase Guestbook for reception
Order Kilts
Plan reception: first dance song selection, parent dances, place cards, place card holders, cake topper, seating arrangements, etc
Select and order wedding cake
Rehearsal dinner invites
Prepare OOT welcome baskets
Must-Take photo list
Do not play/must play lists for DJ/Band
Purchase or make ceremony programs
Schedule day of hair, makeup, and nail appts for Bride and BMs
Host BM luncheon
Finalize menus, song selections, timelines, and all details with all vendors
Attend gown fittings
Break in wedding day shoes
Call guests who have not RSVP'd
Obtain Marriage License
Shop & pack for Honeymoon
Set aside time to write thank you notes for shower gifts
Prepare Day-of Timeline and give a copy to each vendor along with copies of must-take photo lists, etc
Send out wedding announcements to local paper
Confirm all final payments, schedule, pick up times, head count, etc with all vendors
Confirm HM reservations and travel arrangements
Create a “wedding box” to gather your ceremony accessories (marriage license,
candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport.
Prepare a “reception box” for accessories such as guest books, cameras, toasting
goblets, cake toppers, etc., and assign someone to transport
Prepare day-of emergency kit
Prepare any speeches or toasts
Place tips for each vendor in envelopes

There is a bunch of stuff I'm forgetting. I'm way behind.

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Posted by McSulllivan


Shop for and order Flowergirl(s) Dress(es)
MOB order gown

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oh, ok... so my mom is not the only one who doesn't have a dress for my wedding which is less than 6 weeks away!

I still have to get parents gifts,
Song lists
Finish picking out pictures for our montage and video
1st fitting columbus day weekend
hair trial
bra if i choose to wear one..lol
book hotel in nyc for the weekend
PAY!!!!
Finish picking out the readings, programs,
Meeting w/ the hall next weekend for menus and table linens..
bags for the bms
gifts for the kids in the bridal party
CRY!!
Makeup trial
Rings
Liscenses
Cake toppper
HOLY COW!!!!

And a unity candle
jewelry for me..
Probably a ton more
our yah and PAY!!!!

My mom 'thinks' she found hers..
LOL

oh my goodness thinking of all of it makes me stress, haha:

- going with groom and fmil to choose groom's tux this evening!
- tasting this saturday, choose food
- shoes, hair trial, undergarments - all being shopped for tomorrow!
- meet with band to review selections
- give photographer completed form
- finish gifts for bridal party, pack, etc.
- parents gifts
- we added a groomesman so must change the limo situation...no clue!
- dress fitting on 10/4
- marriage license (just receive baptism certificates)
- choose ceremony music, readings, etc...
- make programs after choosing...
- choose linens, etc. for hall
- make away baskets for people staying in hotel
- FAVORS!!?? probably doing donation but have to make or order cards for this
- have to get unity candle
- cake topper?
- pack for honeymoon:)))))

i'm sure there are a zillion more things but this is enough for now haha. it's down to the wire ladies!!! enough waiting, now is the time when everything has to get DONE:) good luck!!!

oh yeah another one:

- friday night going to flower michele to see centerpiece!! can't wait for that one:)