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Ok now another invite question...

FutureJOC Posted:

Ok now another invite question...

Sorry but I'm like going through my guest list again today to make sure everything is perfect LOL

So we a friend that we are inviting that is going to be getting married the month before us but by that time our invites for our wedding would have already gone out.

Now when I said out the invite, do I address it to her with her Maiden Name or with her soon to be married name? Since by the time our wedding rolls around it will be her married name.

For the seating chart at our wedding I am going to list her and her husband as Mr. and Mrs. John Doe.
LindyBride22 Posted:

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Are you sure she is changing her name? If you are, I think I would still do the invite to her maiden name, and the seating chart with her married name

FutureJOC Posted:

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Posted by LindyBride22

Are you sure she is changing her name? If you are, I think I would still do the invite to her maiden name, and the seating chart with her married name



yeah I guess I will find out if she plans on changing her name (which I am pretty sure that she is). I'll do the invite to her maiden and put the married on the chart

Thanks!
DCgirl82 Posted:

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So when she gets the invite she wont be married yet right?

On mine for those people I am putting Future Mr. & Mrs.. and the name

I did it for the E-party invites and they LOVED IT!
dCa51899 Posted:

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i have a situation like this too and i was thinking of going with her maiden name or 'the future Mr & Mrs ____' (but FH will prob veto that bc he'll think its 'cheesy')

FutureJOC Posted:

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Ehhh I don't think I'm going to go the 'future' route. It is a cute idea but I would do that more for someone I am really close with - We aren't extremely close with this couple.

LindyBride22 Posted:

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Posted by DCgirl82

So when she gets the invite she wont be married yet right?

On mine for those people I am putting Future Mr. & Mrs.. and the name

I did it for the E-party invites and they LOVED IT!



Thats a really cute idea!!! I agree that it works better for couples youre very close with, but I do have a bridesmaid who is getting married the month after me....
AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by FutureJOC


Posted by LindyBride22

Are you sure she is changing her name? If you are, I think I would still do the invite to her maiden name, and the seating chart with her married name



yeah I guess I will find out if she plans on changing her name (which I am pretty sure that she is). I'll do the invite to her maiden and put the married on the chart

Thanks!



If they are married by the time they get it then yes... if not then to the Future Mr. & Mrs. bla blaahh
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Mr. John Doe
Ms. Michelle Smith


It is the formal way if the other invites are formal.
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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I would do the maiden name also... I'm going to have a similar problem..

mrsq2be Posted:

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Posted by DCgirl82

So when she gets the invite she wont be married yet right?

On mine for those people I am putting Future Mr. & Mrs.. and the name

I did it for the E-party invites and they LOVED IT!



that's waht I am doing on mine also

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