Ok really stupid question but I need to know!! How did you decide...

AJsMommy122 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:29 PM

Ok really stupid question but I need to know!! How did you decide...

which bm to match up with which gm??
Besides the moh and bm going together.

Did you do it by age/relationship/height

TIA! and sorry for the stupid questions!

littlebookworm4 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:34 PM

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Well I have a few husbands and wife couples in mine so I'm just putting them together regardless of height but for the others I did it with who I thought would be most comfortable together. Most people do height though...

hbradio Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:37 PM

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We did it with who we thought would be most comfortable together.

Like for example, FHs niece is 16 and we werent putting her with any of his friends that can be perverted...

divabride Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:37 PM

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My deciding factor will be height.

Latrice Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:38 PM

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No question is a stupid question. But to answer your question, I am doing mine by height.

jimmysgrl Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:38 PM

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Not a stupid question at all. I am matching by height and who would look good with one another. We have some short gm and I don't want them to be uncomfortable walking my taller friends down, and also, who may get along better with whom or who already know one another, etc. Plus, you can always ask your bm who they would like to walk down with if they know on another

AJsMommy122 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:38 PM

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Thanks girls!!

I think im having an extra tough time b/c I am 1 guy short... soooo that means I have to put 2 girls with one guy and I cant figure out who to do that with.

AJsMommy122 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:41 PM

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Thank you girls sooo much!! I think I have it figured out.. BUT one little problem.. since I need two girls to one guy...
the way it would work out best is to put my one really tall bm and one really short bm with my medium hight groomsmen.. will that look really dumb??? ( also the two girls dont get along the best but there was no other way for me to do it

hmm8191 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 03:46 PM

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we are mismatched (more BM than GM) so I think we're having all the boys and then all the girls walk in to the reception.

Only the BM's are walking down the aisle.

I'm not sure about walking up. Probably height??

Marisa M Posted: Dec 21, 2004 04:14 PM

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I have a Bf/Gf couple - and then i'm just going by who I think will be comfortable w/ who.........the whole height thing really doesn't matter IMO. - I just won't be putting one of our friend w/ a taller BM b/c he's sensitive about his height.........

littlebookworm4 Posted: Dec 21, 2004 04:28 PM

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

Thank you girls sooo much!! I think I have it figured out.. BUT one little problem.. since I need two girls to one guy...
the way it would work out best is to put my one really tall bm and one really short bm with my medium hight groomsmen.. will that look really dumb??? ( also the two girls dont get along the best but there was no other way for me to do it

Concerning them not really getting along together - I'm sure (I HOPE) that they are mature enough to be able to deal with each other for their friend's wedding day and how long does it take to walk down the aisle anyway? Don't sweat it.

Darcy Posted: Dec 21, 2004 05:56 PM

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I am going to attempt to go by hieght. One of my BMs is very tall

FTRBRIDE Posted: Dec 21, 2004 09:31 PM

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We're 1 GM short also...so I think we're going to have the MOH walk down by herself after the pairs walk ahead of her.

Other than that, I think all of the GM are taller than my BM...so height isn't a factor. I guess I'll just pair up those who know each other, and the rest will meet someone knew