well...in order to have an outside ceremony, it has to be early oct.
10/2 is open...I love the date bc it's my BDAY...and no one can complain bc hello..it's MY bday.
is that a bad idea? I'm so screwing myself right? lol
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We purposely scheduled our wedding away from EVERYTHING else, cause the whole family has their bdays and anniversaries before July is over.
But that's YOUR judgement call. Maybe it just means bigger, better presents
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nooo, it's perfect! I bet your fh will love it too since it's only one date to remember in the future!
I don't see a problem with this at all...guests just better remember to add a lil sumthin sumthin to the wedding gift to include your birthday!
chreesta
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I wouldn't want to share my bday with my anniversary.
Maybe I'm just a brat?
pjc92980
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hmmm i have to say i personally opted not to plan my wedding on my or fh birthday (or any other family members day for that matter) and the reason why is, my grandmother and grandfather got married on my grandmothers birthday. my grandfather passed away 2 yrs ago and now when her birthday comes around it is also her anniversary and she gets very depressed. i decided to keep all happy occasions separate...it just means more things to celebrate! why share my day when you can have 2 special days??!?!
I am a fan of oct 2nd though...its my sisters bday too!
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I don't think its a bad idea. As long as you don't care I think its fine. If you are talking about getting 2 presents from FH one for your anniversary and one for your birthday maybe that won't happen but do you really care?
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i payed atten ALOT to the weather in the last 2 October's...end of Oct was beautiful! still nice and warm...so if you are worried, it may be something to consider.... we were away the end of Oct (out east) and one of the days was in the 80's
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honestly... the only people that get me anything for my bday are my parents and maybe my sister... so at your age having something on your bday isnt really going to matter... its not like youre 12 and would be missing out on presents ... i would definitely do it
MrsTarricone2B
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I would do it! And tell your FH he has to get you 2 gifts because it's 2 holidays, even though he only has to remember 1 date!
allornil
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oh FH is ridiculous w gifts. I'm not worried about that.
I don't know why, but I kind of like having it on my bday...like it's really MY day I guess...and NOT the DIVA's. lol
rendel
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I would want the 2 celebrations to be separate, but that is just me. If you want it that way and it makes you happy, please do it!!!!!! What concern do you have about it?
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Posted by rendel
I would want the 2 celebrations to be separate, but that is just me. If you want it that way and it makes you happy, please do it!!!!!! What concern do you have about it?
umm...just that it's weird? I dunno. The RH prices drop on 10/1 and so it's perfect that I love Oct and the earlier the date in Oct, the better luck we should have w the weather.
It's on the water.
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no matter what, your going to get beautiful weather in october! the last few octobers have been amazing! i don't know if i would get married on my birthday though =0(
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Posted by allornil
Here's a weird question...well maybe.
FH and I have decided to get married in October.
1 - bc it's Halloween month :)
2 - bc it's not really hot
well...in order to have an outside ceremony, it has to be early oct.
10/2 is open...I love the date bc it's my BDAY...and no one can complain bc hello..it's MY bday.
is that a bad idea? I'm so screwing myself right? lol
I am getting married Nov 6th and I am tryiing for an outdoor wedding. I am doing an early ceremony of 11:30 soo hopefully it will be warm enough for ppl to sit outside for 1/2hr otherwise I am stuck doing it inside. But I don't think you are screwing yourself on your bday. If you don't mind having your wedding date on your bday then go for it.
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im super excited for an october wedding!!!! If it doesnt bother you that your birthday is the same day then i say go for it!!! Im getting married the next weekend which is columbus day weekend!!
meg922
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Both of my sisters got married the day after their birthdays. It's wasn't really a big deal.
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Posted by mybabylovesmoi
nooo, it's perfect! I bet your fh will love it too since it's only one date to remember in the future!
I don't see a problem with this at all...guests just better remember to add a lil sumthin sumthin to the wedding gift to include your birthday!
very true!
SoonToBeMrsONeill
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I am sure you will be fine... If you feel happy having it on your birthday then I would go for it! :D
wedding_girl
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If it doesn't bother you then do it
If it were me though, I would want a seperate day for my anniversary
angelabarra12
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if you dont have a prob with it being on your bday!! go for it!!! and you said you love halloween i think its perfect and itll still be nice out because its the beginning of oct!! i think its a great time of year to do it!!
