ok - should i be mad

Shea Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:35 PM

ok - should i be mad

Stacey04 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:37 PM

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I she going to come over after she gets her stuff done to hang out with you and everyone else? Is she in the BP?

MrsK-in-June05 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:37 PM

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Is she from here?? Maybe she has been seeing the same stylist for years. If so, don't be mad that she has someone she can trust.

julz33 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:37 PM

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You shouldn't be mad. Maybe she can't afford the person you are using or likes her own stylist. JUst tell her to come over when she is ready and don't be mad

palebride Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:37 PM

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I would say notto let it get to you......it'll drive you crazy!
it's not a huge deal....and it won't reall yimpact your day all that much
stressful times, arent' they?

suven Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:38 PM

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who's paying? if you're paying, than you can be upset

Shea Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:42 PM

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suven Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:46 PM

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Posted by Shea

she is in the BP and they are paying for their own hair and make-up...
i told her that she needs to be over at 1 because we are taking pics and leaving....
she was like, ok.

there is just too much stress....you know?

thanks girls...

it's much better to hear about it now...

I had many SURPRISES on the day of my wedding. at that point, it was too late to do anything about it...

julz33 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:53 PM

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You definately don't need the extra stress.... let her do what she wants and have fun with your other bridesmaids

jonspenguin11552 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:54 PM

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Just look @ it this way, less girls less stress.. That dayI dont even think I will know who is around me I'll be in a daze. i probably wont even feel my feet, i'll be so retarded. I felt the same way you did, but now im just like whatever you do is fine.. i cant be bothered

Stacey04 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:56 PM

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Ok well, don't let it bother you...you will have everyone else their with you and as someone else said, maybe one less person is better.

Take a deep breath!

LADYLUV69 Posted: Jul 18, 2004 10:58 PM

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I won't be upset. She may have been going to a certain hair dresser for awhile and she trust him/her. I have 2 hairdresser and those are the only 2 I would go to. I do not trust anyone else with my hair. Don't get worked up over this. It will be ok.

Shea Posted: Jul 18, 2004 11:06 PM

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Russo'sbride Posted: Jul 18, 2004 11:07 PM

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I think she wants to save money. Maybe she dosn't want to pay what your hair stylist is charging. But I think she should have thought of your feeling before she decided to go elsewhere.

Shea Posted: Jul 19, 2004 08:01 AM

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chichila15 Posted: Jul 19, 2004 08:09 AM

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Posted by julz33

You shouldn't be mad. Maybe she can't afford the person you are using or likes her own stylist. JUst tell her to come over when she is ready and don't be mad

I agree with julz. However, it doesn't help that she you can't stand her to begin with... but better that way, no? You get to enjoy the company of those in the BP that are closer to you. At least she's planning on responsibly being there on time.

Shea Posted: Jul 19, 2004 08:12 AM

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suven Posted: Jul 19, 2004 08:14 AM

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Posted by Shea

she truly thinks this wedding is like all about her and it drives me crazy....
so i guess the fact that she wont be there is better

You are right, on both accounts!!! Unfortunately, her attitude is NOT uncommon. Just consider yourself lucky that you are getting advanced notice! (I wish I would have been so lucky!)