Ok so I am bit Pre-Cana obsessed but....

HearzBellz Posted: Oct 17, 2003 01:11 PM

Ok so I am bit Pre-Cana obsessed but....

Fh is really nervous & I am getting a bit nervous too. I go to a Catholic College & took theology classes & such, but I have not been to either a mass or confession since I made my confirmation 17 years ago!!! Are they gonna ask stuff like that? Is there anything you guys can tell me to help us out a bit?

Betty Posted: Oct 17, 2003 01:15 PM

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NO! Don't worry. It's nothing like that. The focus is on relationships and stuff. They didn't ask us anything about going to church.

2003fallwedding Posted: Oct 17, 2003 01:19 PM

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We had Pre Cana this past Spring and it was not that bad. They talk about relationships, how would we handle certain problems...things like that. Don't worry

Licia Posted: Oct 17, 2003 01:23 PM

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No they really don't focus on that. We just finished our pre cana and we focused on communication, family, our relationship, and we touched a little on religion but is was focused on our own personal feelings. At least with our gorup they really didn't judge...we all basically weren't the 'perfect practicing' caltholics there.
You will be ok

HearzBellz Posted: Oct 17, 2003 02:27 PM

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thanks... FH had me really REALLY freaked about it! silly men......

shannon326 Posted: Oct 17, 2003 03:07 PM

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My FH was feaking out about pre cana also. Believe me it is nothing like you think. Believe it or not he actually likes it and talks the whole time. (i couldn't believe it) So don't worry it will be fine!!

june262004 Posted: Oct 17, 2003 03:20 PM

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We had our first week of precana 2 weeks ago. Its not that bad. I havent been to mass since.... I dont even remember. I was so scared. I have no idea who any of the priests are in my parish either. Dont worry its not bad!!!!!!!!