Ok so I think I am going to have a breakdown

Well my wedding is quickly approaching and I fee like way to much is going wrong.
#1 were only going to have like 125 people when we invited over 160. (125 is our minimum grantee)
#2 My DJ has pissed me off a bit
#3 My FH and I are having some 'issues' over the music for our DVD
#4..and most important
My cousin had a baby in July. She is breast feeding and can not pump she really wants to be in the wedding and refuses to back out. (I gave her the option knowing she is having a hard time) needless to say she wont be at my house when the photographer comes and she will follow the limo with her and her husband (also in the BP) incase of a baby issue (which is fine) and then she will try to be in as many pics as she can. I am upset because what do i do if i love a picture with out her in it?? I dont want to feel bad picking it because she is not init. I really wanted her to come to my house for pictures. Maybe my Aunt (her mom ) can come with the baby and she can stop to feed him if need be.

and to top it off I still have a s***load of crap to do.
Did I mention i work full time and have a 6yr old son??

Fustrated!

Let me just say that right now things may seem sooooo horrible but they will all work out in the end. I guarantee it. Dont let it get you down. Just stay positive and try to work things out as much as you can. There are some things you wont be able to change especially with your cousin who just had the baby. She is trying to be there for you and also make it easier on you despite the fact that she just had a baby. So just work around it and it will fall into place!!! You will be fine!!!

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Posted by soon2BMrsin08

Well my wedding is quickly approaching and I fee like way to much is going wrong.
#1 were only going to have like 125 people when we invited over 160. (125 is our minimum grantee)
#2 My DJ has pissed me off a bit
#3 My FH and I are having some 'issues' over the music for our DVD
#4..and most important
My cousin had a baby in July. She is breast feeding and can not pump she really wants to be in the wedding and refuses to back out. (I gave her the option knowing she is having a hard time) needless to say she wont be at my house when the photographer comes and she will follow the limo with her and her husband (also in the BP) incase of a baby issue (which is fine) and then she will try to be in as many pics as she can. I am upset because what do i do if i love a picture with out her in it?? I dont want to feel bad picking it because she is not init. I really wanted her to come to my house for pictures. Maybe my Aunt (her mom ) can come with the baby and she can stop to feed him if need be.

and to top it off I still have a s***load of crap to do.
Did I mention i work full time and have a 6yr old son??

Fustrated!

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I was just as stressed and it really does work out in the end.
1- all u need is the minimum! We actually were at our minimum too and still 10 people who said they would show couldn't last minute for valid reasons- life happens. u will lose money but it will be the best day ever in the end. its okay.
2- u won't even know you have a dj on the day of the wedding. i don't even know what my dj's name was. u won't even hear the music. u'll be flying and too happy to notice him or anything wrong! just dance!
3- u'll compromise, i promise
4 - your cousin is trying to still be there for u and that;s great! if she dropped out now she won't be in any bridal party pics at least how things are now she'll be in several. make sure to get a pic with just u and her if incase ur favorite group shot does not have her in it u can sitll use it and have the one with the two of u to remember she was there for u but not always with the group but that its okay because she has a baby too.

its so close! ur going to have the best day!!