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KK Holiday
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the majority of your guests are going to RSVP 'NO' and you'll only have like 20 people at your wedding?
I dont know why I feel like this (especially because I have only gotten 'yes' rsvps back so far) but i'm afraid that since i invited so little only 70 guests will come and it will be much smaller than i had wanted
Browneyesncute
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yes, i though this with my shower too! but don't worry it wont happen and everything will be great!
lizzie217
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this WILL not happen ...but in a worst case scenario I was at a small wedding and I LOVED IT! Made me wish I could have one so intimate and you really get to spend time with everyone (with my family no such thing as small though lol)
oktom22
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I definitely feel like this and that's why I wound up inviting 276 to meet my 225 min
Future Mulligan
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yes - i dont know if i worry more about people saying no or people saying yes
KK Holiday
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our vineyard has a small deck so it can only fit 110 people. we didnt want to invite a lot of people and then we have too many 'yes's' and have no where to sit them! so we invited a small amount and have a B list to go out when we get 'no's'
but i worry that the A list will say no and so will the B list.
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Im hoping I get a lot of No responses.. Honestly the people I care about most will definitely be there.. so all the other people....wont really enhance or hurt my day... less people coming..less money spent!!!
Bring onthe NOOOOOOOSSSS!!!
Jamnike
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so far we are at 96 yes 75 no.....im sure you will have more....NO ONE in FHs fam is comming
bluekat16
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I feel this way even though I haven't sent out my invites yet.
I mostly feel like this since my wedding is the weekend inbetween Christmas and New Year's and I know a lot of people go away around that time.
Kimbalina
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In a way.. I feel like some people who I would like to come.. wont. Either for fincial reasons or just because they for some reason can't.
I am hoping to meet my minimum.. at this point we can not afford to go much over.
jennandrolo
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my fear was the opposite..i was afraid everyone would say yes lol and i'd be broooke. dont worry a decent amount will come.
Newsysuzy12
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hate to say it...but this has kinda happened to me....I am at about 35 yes, 35 no, 30 no answer two days after my rsvp date. I will say, I planned this whole thing in three months, and I just think it was bad timing. The better notice you give people, the more will say yes.
futuremrsfab
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yea we had all yes's until 2 days ago & then got 2 on the same day & I got all panicky that we would get a ton more- but we havent gotten any more- but someone also said they come at the end closer to the rsvp date.
