I have til friday for my RSVP due date.. So far I need to still hear from 26 invites-- so like 40ish people.. If EVERYONE responds NO then I am like 20 people under my minimum and this whole time I am thinking I am going to be way over my minimum..
So-- for the last ones that trickle in-- do we think they will be like all no's? Now I am getting scared..
Man, I am neurotic as it is-- with this wedding.. it;s even worse!
jpavig
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I don't think they'll be all no's at all. They're just probably sitting on peoples refrigerators and it's slipped their minds. Just sit back and relax.
06NovBride
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or your guests could be like my family and be major procrastinators....my father called up my aunt because she never responded to our e-party and she said she still had one more....nothing like waiting until the last minute...lol...that's my family.
riniko
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So is it wrong to start calling people BEFORE the RSVP date? Kinda like... 'I just called to remind you that the RSVP date is...'
SweetCin704
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It should be the same ratio as the ones you've gotten. Out of 20 people, should be at least 10-12 yes's, I would think.
Don't worry!!!
naps627
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relax if they don't respond have one of your bridesmaid make phone calls to make sure they are coming or not coming.
Backinneyork
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A lot of people wait until the last minute. Don't get stressed out just yet.....Do you have a B list that you can send invites to if you had to?
randella
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No B list-- but the funny thing is- is that we thought we were going to be WAY over our minimum.. Just a lot of the people we have not heard from are toss ups.. we went through, and we know 10 are coming.. but that still only puts us at 200.
