Errrr.. 9 girls in my bridal party.. Is that out of control, or no?
Im seriously contemplating this!! I would like to ask my friend Alexandria but everytime I think about it, it just bothers me when I think about how HUGE my BP is already.. 8 girls.. 9 guys (2 are best men- I have one MOH)
I know the size of my BP really dont matter, but I cant imagine not asking her.
CalJoe0124
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
I say if you can't imagine not asking her then ask her, if you are ok with it then go for it, who cares what others think, this if your day!
The only thing I would say is just make sure that in 10/20 years you know or are pretty sure you will be good friends with these girls and when you look at pics you won't regret it, ya know
Good luck to you!!!
SIBride06
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
Well this girl, (alexandria) I have been friends with my entire life.....
kellwolfe
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
HONEY...........ASK HER! this has been hunting you for months now - one more person doesnt make a world of difference - but her being in your bridal party would ASK HER
cindyandkevin
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
Def ask her!! Don't worry about having a big BP, one more doesn't make a difference. You'll regret it later if she's not included. And she might feel really bad that she wasn't a BM for your wedding.
Btw, how are you and your MOH doing?
SIBride06
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
Hey Cindy.. thanks for asking.
After ignoring her phone calls ( I know Im bad,) I finally called her back and we talked about it. It turns out that she was just really having a BAD day..l she got into an argument with her boyfriend and she took it out on me.. She told me she was sorry. She felt so bad that she called my mom to tell her how bad she felt.
Sorry for not getting back to you girls on this. Im so glad everything worked out for the best.
soontobemrsd325
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
NOT AT ALL
hmpena
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
Janie,
So glad that you worked things out with your MOH... you definitely do not deserve to be treated like that!
If you want to ask your friend to be in the wedding, then do it!! It's your day and all about who you want up there with you
Jennie0898
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
Posted by SIBride06
Errrr.. 9 girls in my bridal party.. Is that out of control, or no?
Im seriously contemplating this!! I would like to ask my friend Alexandria but everytime I think about it, it just bothers me when I think about how HUGE my BP is already.. 8 girls.. 9 guys (2 are best men- I have one MOH)
I know the size of my BP really dont matter, but I cant imagine not asking her.
So then ask her. What's the difference how big your BP is?
ChrissynRicky
Posted:
Member since
Re: Okay Im still Stressing about this!!!
What's one more girl? LOL
It's okay to have a large BP - and I've seen a lot larger! The fact that you're considering asking her, then you should ask her!
