The nerves have got the best of me! How do i calm down... I have a to do list and everytime i look at my heart beats so much faster it is not major stuff just stupid BS even the thought of going to get the unity candle and the bathroom guest basket stuff or whatever you call it is overwhelming me now.. Please give me some advice on how to calm my nerves.... other than telling me to burn the list!
Suzannebride
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Well, don't burn it, but maybe put it to the side for a day and try not to thik about it? And then sit back and take another look at it. Maybe there are things that you don't really need to have and you can cross them right off. And maybe there are things you can delegate to FH? Family? Friends?
KarAnthony
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I just tried to do something wedding related each day the month before. The last 2 weeks you will be the busiest, but once you start getting things done you will fell better. Have your friends/family/BM/FH help you. I tried to do everything myself and then a few days before relinquished some control...
cindyandkevin
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You're getting close and you're freaking out, don't worry about it!! It's natural and happens to all of us.
Just remember, the world isn't going to end if you don't have bathroom baskets. Prioritize what you need to do and break it down, schedule each thing for the weeks that you have remaining. Put the important stuff first so you get that out of the way and you know it gets done. Then put the smaller, unimportant stuff at the end. This way if you run out of time it's ok, your wedding will still be beautiful even if you don't have bathroom baskets!!
Jweb17
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Posted by cindyandkevin
You're getting close and you're freaking out, don't worry about it!! It's natural and happens to all of us.
Just remember, the world isn't going to end if you don't have bathroom baskets. Prioritize what you need to do and break it down, schedule each thing for the weeks that you have remaining. Put the important stuff first so you get that out of the way and you know it gets done. Then put the smaller, unimportant stuff at the end. This way if you run out of time it's ok, your wedding will still be beautiful even if you don't have bathroom baskets!!
Very well said! Firstly, take a deep breath Secondly, priortize what it is you have to get done and slowly but surely things will come off the list...I promise you!!!
