Okay- so I have been asking my Future Mother In Law

for a wedding count for let's say..... hmmmm.... five months now and she still has not done it!

I have been bugging her more recently for two months, since I ordered the save the dates and still.... no list....

I waited to do the save the dates but then I decided to send out my side of the family last week.

I wanted to get them all done over my christmas break and that didn't happen, (I'm a teacher)

Then I just did my side over February break....

It's just sooo annoying!

I picked out my invites and favors too... I just need to know how many to order! I want to get things done with!
Message edited 2/28/2005 6:49:41 PM.

I understand....My FMIL is sweet but not use to the wedding stuff. She had all boys and her other DIL's didn't have a wedding like we are. I am running into other problems but hopefully it will work it self out. If not oh well. I would tell her when you are mailing out the STD's and if she has not given the list to you yet, do not stress. You'll have bigger things to worry about. Anyway, her list will be invited to your BIG day. Just think, since you didn't mail them a STD they may not have to make you and your FH's final list.

I'm going through the same thing!! But twice as bad, because not only do I have to deal with my FMIL but I also have to worry about my FFIL too!

They separated about 10 years ago, and each of them is excited about bringing some members of each side of the family, but no one has given me a list yet.

I'm tired of asking them (they may be busy at work or something), so now I'm bugging my FH for the lists. Maybe he can get through to them!

I too had to ask fmil a lot but finally I told FH to ask her because lets face it girls
IT'S HIS MOTHER