ok....I am venting....

I am feeling very overwhelmed! and I am so upset.....

I am having the worse time trying to find my mom a dress...and we should be having fun!

And I heard my mom on the phone with my FH and telling him she is really upset that the invites have not gone out yet!( I know she is talking about my shower) SO of course I call my MOH because she can not keep a secret and she basically told me not to worry....but I was pressing her and I could tell that there was something not going smoothy but she did not want to let on....then of course I call my FH and start laying in to him about about certain people...and it turned ugly.... Now i feel bad.....I am totally stressing....

I am sorry i don't even think I am making sence.....I Just need dot let it out....

You don't have to make sense, you are a BRIDE!

Please try to relax. Your Mom will find a dress soon, I'm sure. Maybe she has been busy with the shower and she is having trouble focusing on the dress? Think of all the beautiful dresses that will be available this holiday season. She will surely find something that you both love.

My only advice is to let the shower be a SURPRISE and it will go off without a hitch. I'm sure you have a talented group of girls who will make sure that your shower is wonderful.

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Posted by NPTbride

You don't have to make sense, you are a BRIDE!

Please try to relax. Your Mom will find a dress soon, I'm sure. Maybe she has been busy with the shower and she is having trouble focusing on the dress? Think of all the beautiful dresses that will be available this holiday season. She will surely find something that you both love.

My only advice is to let the shower be a SURPRISE and it will go off without a hitch. I'm sure you have a talented group of girls who will make sure that your shower is wonderful.

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Thank you......

Try to relax. Your mom or MOH will pull it together with the shower. Just try not to figure it out. don't put FH in that position.

As far as dress go to Lord and Taylor. Try Estelles. You never know.

Just remember it all works out in the end.

denise, don't stress at all! You need to relax & let the things fall into place...It seems stressful now because everything that you guys booked, fell into place without problems! Now that you are having difficulty with finding a dress for mom you are stressing! Don't, in time she will find something. My mom found a dress for my brother's wedding 1 month prior.

With the shower, don't let that get you upset. You want things to be a surprise but also you don't want to get so upset at your MOH & start trouble there! Let them handle everything & your shower will go off without a problem.

I am sorry that you are disagreeing with Mike! Remember, you are both stressed with the house & the wedding. Make it a point to take some 'you' time this weekend & relax. You need to just sit back & let things go! I am here for you to vent, remember that