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OK...I really think I have to do this...

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

OK...I really think I have to do this...

I think I have to kick out my 2 BFFs/BMs.

They are still pulling some majorly immature BS even AFTER I spoke with them and made my feelings clear.

I am sooooo mad/angry/sad/hurt by them. I have been fighting the urge to start WWIII with them.

What flucking bittches.
GR2010 Posted:

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I'm sorry, it is terrible when people just can't be happy for you and have to cause drama.

MrsC2010 Posted:

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aww im sorry your going through this with them. but if you think they will just be drama then its probably best to kick them out.
Tessie728 Posted:

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ackk thats the worsssttt! Maybe wait a bit for things to blow over? You dont want to do anything you will regret!
Unless they have pushed you to the point where you dont care if you lose them for good...
Im sorry for all the drama your going through!
Alexandra17 Posted:

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that makes me so mad...I feel your pain

Lsorrent Posted:

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I'm sorry sweetie
Nina1010 Posted:

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I'm so sorry.... Not an easy decision
StaceyWill Posted:

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Ugh!!! That sux. Go with your gut and do what you feel is best. Sorry you have to deal with this crap!!!
marinai7 Posted:

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I'm sorry sweetie!!! I hope everything works out and your BM's come to their senses.

Bride825 Posted:

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SummerBride10 Posted:

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That scuks. I'm sorry Heather

At least its all being done now..rather than a month or two before the wedding.

Everything happens for a reason.
Ray8183 Posted:

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Clover23 Posted:

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sorry youre dealing w this b.s. heather!
Lu2700 Posted:

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urgh i'm so sorry ur going thru this. must be really stressful
M_Berk-Glenn Posted:

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Sorry your going through this

This is your time and you dont need drama or negative energy. If kicking them out is the best thing then go for it, they were warned!
Rosie0613 Posted:

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I'm sorry hun.....they should be happy for you - not causing all this for you
NovBride10 Posted:

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Sorry to hear that. Maybe they are jealous of you in some way so they are trying to be difficult. This should be a happy time for you. Your real friends wouldn't do that. Better to do it now than to have stress before your wedding. Good luck :
JAAMS Posted:

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awww I'm really sorry


t suclks that they can't just be there for you... i really think that jealousy is the root of all problems
JayBee216 Posted:

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Posted by NovBride10

Sorry to hear that. Maybe they are jealous of you in some way so they are trying to be difficult. This should be a happy time for you. Your real friends wouldn't do that. Better to do it now than to have stress before your wedding. Good luck :



ITA. I think you should def go with your gut decision. These girls are not good enough to be BMs OR BFFs if they're acting like this.
es2189 Posted:

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ughhh! that is the worst. i'm so sorry you're going through this!! if you've already tried talking it out, i agree that the next step might be to just tell them it's too much and you would rather have fewer bms.

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