Olga

Let us just say I am totally scandalized!!!! There were men gyrating in every which way - licking wipped cream off the girls they brough on stage! NOT MY CUP OF TEA AT ALLL!!!

But none of them bothered me or my sister at all so yay on that. But def not what I'm doing for my bachelorette party. My cousin's friend took video so

Yea...I'm not into the stripper thing for my bachelorette party either. I would love to go to a spa for the day and just relax!!

definetly a SPA - i was even thinking like a nice dinner in the city and a play or show or something! That would be idea

Hi sorry for jumping in on your thread but I too like a nice spa idea.

Hopefully this time next year FI and I will be living in FL. My Matron lives in FL where everyone else lives up here in NY (one in NJ) and I was telling my FI I think for my bachlorette party if funds are good with my girls I would love for them to fly to FL on a Friday night we all go to a nice dinner and maybe a movie, then Saturday we spend the whole day at the beach maybe do some shopping and a nice BBQ at the house while we relax around the pool drinking colorful drinks and Sunday we do breakfast and everyone on there way back to NY.

My FI said the same thing for his guys. The best man is in FL (best man and matron are married to each other) and if funds are good for the guys they fly down for the weekend and the guys do a BBQ or a dinner or something.

We were thinking we send all the guys to the best man's house (they live 6 blocks from where we will be) and all the girls stay at our house.

Chip I like that idea a LOT!!! I need a BP near the beach too!!!!!

beaches and drinks is all I want