Ok so you all know i rsvped no to that party for my fh brothers kid- 1 of the other brothers emailed all the sil's saying theres problems in the family and the brothers are suffering, etc. should i be the bigger person and just go to this damn party to make FH & his F***ing family happy??
hmm..it would really depend on how evil the SILs are. Most of the time I recommend sucking it up and going...but if they have done something reallt bad to you...then dont. Can FH go alone?
just goooo.. sometimes u just have to suck it up. ALWAYS be the better person.
Posted by grkbarbie
just goooo.. sometimes u just have to suck it up. ALWAYS be the better person.
I don't know it sounds like a bunch of bs to me but I really don't know the situation - try to find out more about whats going on first so you can see if it really is some kind of guilt trip. 'all the brothers are suffering?' I dont know what to make of that...
Posted by grkbarbie
the brothers sufferingmeans, every1 is aware that the wives are catty and the family is starting to talk..
talking = telephone = mixed lines = drama= families hatingeachother = NO BUENO
thats how i take it...
Posted by soontobemrsag
Posted by grkbarbie
everyone is up in arms... jeez i want a glass of wine!
have one - i need to have one just trying to digest all this
U may want to erase this by the way I don't know if the other ladies are aware of this site but ppl have had problems before with this kind of stuff - just an FYI
they are definately not on here but thanks!
I'm a big believer in choosing your own battles, however I've learned from experience that if you cave all the time, nothing ever gets better.
wait til after youre married lolol
This whole situation is ridiculous! Kudos to you for sucking it up and being the better person... I could NEVER! I would start a world war 3 with these b i tches lol. How does your FH feel about the whole situation, since aren't these his brothers? Does he care about the drama or does he just laugh it off? So sorry for you!
thanks marjorie - he feels its ridiculous but he did say before i rsvped no that this isnt about the brother or SIL but about the child who is his god daughter but i didnt want to go - I STILL dont want to go but i am trying to be the better person here but im saying this now - for all my LI brides to hear - if ANYTHING is said negative to me or if i am treated wrong or someone gets snotty with me i WILL cause world war 3 & it will not be pretty. wish me luck its in a week!
