I just received an email from my one of my BM's (which is my FSIL) saying that she is unsure if she, her step-daughter and FH's twin brother will be able to be in the BP as FH's neice's mother is having issues not having her that day. So i have my Bridesmaid, bestman and flower girl on the fence!! OMFG!!! I am soo mad right now!!
I haven't even told FH i am just so furious i want to scream!!!
2013Bride
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For a wedding in September the woman is having issues not having her daughter on THAT specific day?! That's ridiculous!
Any way you can speak to your future-niece's mother personally?
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For a wedding in September the woman is having issues not having her daughter on THAT specific day?! That's ridiculous!
Any way you can speak to your future-niece's mother personally?
Aparently thats what i was told. I don't know, i would have to try to find a way to contact her, but i dont want to complicate anything for them in court, since my FBIL has full custody.
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Aparently thats what i was told. I don't know, i would have to try to find a way to contact her, but i dont want to complicate anything for them in court, since my FBIL has full custody.
Ohhh, so it sounds like she is deliberately being difficult!
Ugh, well atleast you have time to sort this all out! Good luck!
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OMG sorry you are going through this, but she sounds a little crazy right now, also with your wedding being in Sept. Thats a little redic!! I'm sorry
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OMG sorry you are going through this, but she sounds a little crazy right now, also with your wedding being in Sept. Thats a little redic!! I'm sorry
Thats what i am saying.. Its April not Sept!!! Now she is saying well i don't know whats going to happen so i dont know if i should order the bm dress!! uummm WHAT!!!!!!!!!
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Now why wouldn't your Bridesmaid & BMan be in the BP? I can see possibly losing your flowergirl due to the circumstances..... but why the parents as well? ESPECIALLY being that the BM is your fiance's TWIN brother.....
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OMG I am so sorry that you are going through that. Hopefully everything will work out!
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even if the ex has the kid... can't your FSIL & FBIL be in the wedding still...?
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even if the ex has the kid... can't your FSIL & FBIL be in the wedding still...?
It is on a Sunday which they have to pick her up at 4pm and the mother won't change that time.. she is being a real ^&@%@!!
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It is on a Sunday which they have to pick her up at 4pm and the mother won't change that time.. she is being a real ^&@%@!!
Maybe a close friend of theirs or a family member of the stepmother can pick her up instead?
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maybe she will calm down in a month or a couple months?
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OMG that is awful of these people, and I'm sure your niece is all excited to be in the BP...people really suck sometimes!!! Don't stress, hopefully they will figure it out...they should've figured it out before they brought it to you anyway! UGH
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I know!! ridiculous!! I already have enough stress!!
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OMGosh, it's sad the way people behave.....
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OMGosh, it's sad the way people behave.....
Agreed! ugh..
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Why not invite the Mother of the child??? Sounds like she's just being a pain because she can be. I'm sure an invitation... which she'll decline would solve the whole problem She'll see she's being silly and act like an adult.
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BTW... the saddest part is that I'm sure the child is excited to be a Flowergirl and her Mom is willing to ruin that for her!
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Why not invite the Mother of the child??? Sounds like she's just being a pain because she can be. I'm sure an invitation... which she'll decline would solve the whole problem She'll see she's being silly and act like an adult.
I was thinking the same thing! Invite her to the wedding to shut her up! haha
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OMG I would ask to talk to that B myself. Give her more days to see her in September or something like that.
