OMG GUYS

Ehhh, we really don't need to start she said, she said-ing.

I just like to play with people a bit, and usually, if I see something bothers someone, I'll do it just a bit more lol.

I'll say it again, it's a good thing I have a sense of humor.

seriously I think the whole point of venting is half of what we vent about we KNOW is ridiculous but still a valid emotion so we can get it off our chests and move on. . esp as it will never make as much sense to someone who is not planning a wedding. . and I BET YOU THOSE same girls who think it's ridiculous now will be all whacked out and venting soon!

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Posted by coldasice217

Ehhh, we really don't need to start she said, she said-ing.

I just like to play with people a bit, and usually, if I see something bothers someone, I'll do it just a bit more lol.

I'll say it again, it's a good thing I have a sense of humor.

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You do have a good sense of humor and that is a great way to be so I applaud you for that!

Personally, I am fed up with the drama on these boards lately.. It feels like it is not even worth coming on here anymore and that is what upsets me the most about it.

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Posted by NikkiR515

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Posted by coldasice217

Ehhh, we really don't need to start she said, she said-ing.

I just like to play with people a bit, and usually, if I see something bothers someone, I'll do it just a bit more lol.

I'll say it again, it's a good thing I have a sense of humor.

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You do have a good sense of humor and that is a great way to be so I applaud you for that!

Personally, I am fed up with the drama on these boards lately.. It feels like it is not even worth coming on here anymore and that is what upsets me the most about it.

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You are totally right. Its like unecessary drama. I really dont get it because I dont come on here to put people down or make fun of people. I really come on here because I have questions, I try to be helpful, and I really like chatting with you girls. This stinks now.....

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Girls on the 2010 boards started a thread about Ali and how much she whines and summertimegirl and futuremazz jumped on the laugh at Ali train... and honestly Im taken back because I thought they were 2 nice girls. When things like this happen it reminds me that girls on here act like your friends, when in reality are not. Brings you back to reality I guess....

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i laughed bc i think its crazy... this is a happy time... and lately it was all negativity from ali... she gets really down on herself and should try to look at the bright side of things and think to herself that everything happens for a reason... and i know ive confronted her in the past on a post asking why she thinks so negatively about herself alot of the time... we had someone in the past who did this all the time and it really does bring the group down when its done constantly... that is all... yes, we are all here to listen to someone vent (ive of course done it in the past plenty of times), but i also post about all the good things that happen to me... theres also a ton of stuff that happens to me that i dont come on here and vent about...

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Girls on the 2010 boards started a thread about Ali and how much she whines and summertimegirl and futuremazz jumped on the laugh at Ali train... and honestly Im taken back because I thought they were 2 nice girls. When things like this happen it reminds me that girls on here act like your friends, when in reality are not. Brings you back to reality I guess....

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i laughed bc i think its crazy... this is a happy time... and lately it was all negativity from ali... she gets really down on herself and should try to look at the bright side of things and think to herself that everything happens for a reason... and i know ive confronted her in the past on a post asking why she thinks so negatively about herself alot of the time... we had someone in the past who did this all the time and it really does bring the group down when its done constantly... that is all... yes, we are all here to listen to someone vent (ive of course done it in the past plenty of times), but i also post about all the good things that happen to me... theres also a ton of stuff that happens to me that i dont come on here and vent about...

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I understand what you are saying and that does make sense but I also kind of feel it is not our place to say what people should post on here. I am here to listen to happy times and vents and for me at least, no one person brings this board down. If anything the only thing that brings the board down for me is people going back and forth bickering over things that don't really need to be discussed at all.

Back in the day I went through a lot of issues with an illness in the family and every post I made practically was about what I was going through and you know what.. that REALLY helped me. I always felt bad posting but I figured if people thought I was too much of a downer they simply would not reply to my posts. I just think that sometimes this board is great for vents and if anything feeling free to vent and know you will be heard brings the morale on the boards up, and not down.. Does that make any sense to anyone else but me???

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by xosweetiexo

Girls on the 2010 boards started a thread about Ali and how much she whines and summertimegirl and futuremazz jumped on the laugh at Ali train... and honestly Im taken back because I thought they were 2 nice girls. When things like this happen it reminds me that girls on here act like your friends, when in reality are not. Brings you back to reality I guess....

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i laughed bc i think its crazy... this is a happy time... and lately it was all negativity from ali... she gets really down on herself and should try to look at the bright side of things and think to herself that everything happens for a reason... and i know ive confronted her in the past on a post asking why she thinks so negatively about herself alot of the time... we had someone in the past who did this all the time and it really does bring the group down when its done constantly... that is all... yes, we are all here to listen to someone vent (ive of course done it in the past plenty of times), but i also post about all the good things that happen to me... theres also a ton of stuff that happens to me that i dont come on here and vent about...

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Thanks for clearing that up because really I was like wow... not summergirl and futuremazz I thought you guys were also nice and there to offer advice and such on threads.

You know the problem is sometimes.... 'its like when it rains it pours' its like one thing goes wrong....so does everything else. For me, its one thing after another with my church that its upsetting.

I really love this website and really like a lot of you guys. I just dont want it to be like HS when girls gang up on another girl and have the drama to get so bad that I dont want to come on here anymore....

There have been many times when I dont want to answer a thread and I just keep it moving.... we all have times where we do this
lol

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Posted by ace730

Honestly this reminds me of the DFZ crap we had last year. This is a site for talking about weddings and supporting each other, not acting like beeotches and posting not so subtle threads insulting each other.

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lets not have one of those again!

All I have to say is this is fawkin insane.

This is why its so hard to post about things you want to talk about because you are worried people will either attack you or offend you.

Nuff said. I'm going back to watching the Mets.

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

All I have to say is this is fawkin insane.

This is why its so hard to post about things you want to talk about because you are worried people will either attack you or offend you.

Nuff said. I'm going back to watching the Mets.

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Well said penetration tester! LOL

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

All I have to say is this is fawkin insane.

This is why its so hard to post about things you want to talk about because you are worried people will either attack you or offend you.

Nuff said. I'm going back to watching the Mets.

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Well said penetration tester! LOL

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LOL Ay ay yi Erica, what happened. You got married and you dont even come on here anymore!

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

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Posted by MrsLarrea2B

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

All I have to say is this is fawkin insane.

This is why its so hard to post about things you want to talk about because you are worried people will either attack you or offend you.

Nuff said. I'm going back to watching the Mets.

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Well said penetration tester! LOL

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LOL Ay ay yi Erica, what happened. You got married and you dont even come on here anymore!

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I have nothing else to bi t c h about. lol (kidding ~ no drama please ~ it was a joke) . But have no fear!
I am stil here in mind and spirit (lurker).

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

All I have to say is this is fawkin insane.

This is why its so hard to post about things you want to talk about because you are worried people will either attack you or offend you.

Nuff said. I'm going back to watching the Mets.

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And thats also why I choose not to 'vent' about certain things in my life... I think people just dont wanna hear it and I dont want people to feel like they have to be sorry for me... But I agree, sometimes you just need that listening ear that you cant get from your fam or friends at the moment

The last thing I'm going to say about this is that if I feel like saying something 'negative', I'm going to say it....and if I feel like saying something 'happy', I'll say it. My personality isn't going to change, and I'm not going to try to change it just because it upsets or offends anyone. Nor do I think I SHOULD do that. Happy, sad, good, bad, and indifferent is all relative, and what one person finds annoying another person can relate to.

So I will just ask of anyone that doesn't care for my writing style, to please not open my posts. Pretty simple. Thanks.

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Posted by coldasice217

The last thing I'm going to say about this is that if I feel like saying something 'negative', I'm going to say it....and if I feel like saying something 'happy', I'll say it. My personality isn't going to change, and I'm not going to try to change it just because it upsets or offends anyone. Nor do I think I SHOULD do that. Happy, sad, good, bad, and indifferent is all relative, and what one person finds annoying another person can relate to.

So I will just ask of anyone that doesn't care for my writing style, to please not open my posts. Pretty simple. Thanks.

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Well said Ali