OMG I am FUMING!!!!!!!!

Ok those of you who didnt read the original post its here

SO! After that I spoke to FH and explained how I felt while maintaining that I adore FBIL otherwise. FH says he understands but he feels bad and also FBIL is traveling again in a few weeks so basically s*ck it up or else I get to be the bad guy when FH says to FBIL sorry you cant stay here. Fine, I say well then can he at least walk the dog tomorrow because I have an important meeting. FH says I'll ask him. Lalala cut to getting home from work. The doggy gate hasn't been put up, the office door is open (we close it because the dog likes to pee in there when he is home alone) and there is FOOD ON THE SOFA! HELLOOO we have a DOG! not to mention FBILs stuff is ALL OVER my office, he didnt even make the guest bed AND he left things open on my computer!!! I call FH and FH says 'well he just left because I called and told him to leave by 3 because you didnt want to see him'. EXCUSE ME? GREAT! Now I am the awful one because I like to come home to a clean, quiet home.

I AM SO ANGRY!!!!!!!!!!!!

WOW! FH really effed that one up. I'd talk to the FBIL directly since FH pretty much sold you down the river on that one.

ETA: And I know how annoyed I get when the dog gets in to everything. We keep the doors to the spare bedroom and downstairs closed for the very same reason. You just had to work all day- like this is what you really want to come home to?!

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Posted by jilliibabii

WOW! FH really effed that one up. I'd talk to the FBIL directly since FH pretty much sold you down the river on that one.

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ITA...

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Posted by jilliibabii

WOW! FH really effed that one up. I'd talk to the FBIL directly since FH pretty much sold you down the river on that one.

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ITA!!! Since you seem to have a decent relationship with FBIL, maybe you 2 could speak calmly about it. Sometimes brothers are overly obnoxious with each other because they can be.

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by jilliibabii

WOW! FH really effed that one up. I'd talk to the FBIL directly since FH pretty much sold you down the river on that one.

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ITA!!! Since you seem to have a decent relationship with FBIL, maybe you 2 could speak calmly about it. Sometimes brothers are overly obnoxious with each other because they can be.

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I agree. Talk to FBIL one on one

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Posted by AngnShaun

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Posted by jilliibabii

WOW! FH really effed that one up. I'd talk to the FBIL directly since FH pretty much sold you down the river on that one.

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ITA...

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I agree! Maybe try and have a private chat w/ FBIL?