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OMG I CAN NOT BELIEVE I AM POSTING THIS! MY WEDDING REVIEW AND PICS!!! UM, 23 pages long!

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LIW. I have a love/hate relationship with LIW. There are times I used to get so frustrated I wouldn’t post for a while, I couldn’t stand the drama. Then one time a psycho bride posted about me, a whole thread dedicated to just me and my florist and I got so many FMs, and made so many friends because of that, I was addicted ever since. To that psycho bride, I have to give my sincerest thanks. I made friends with Eroxgirl because of it, who just went to my wedding and a quite few others like Jenndale ;). Point being, sometimes there will be a few people you roll your eyes at, or maybe even make fun of, (myself included, I’m sure) and yes I did turn into one of those girls who makes friends on this website and they go to each others weddings, but there are truly amazing people on here. If I could, I would have invited a lot more. Anyone who doesn’t use the website to its complete capacity is truly missing out. I can only hope I can begin to help each and every bride as they have helped me.


The days leading up to my wedding, actually the weekend, I would never take back or re-do. When I get nervous, my stomach will hurt, but this was like I had food poisoning. Every time I tried to bite into something or drink anything, my stomach would surge and I would secretly spit it out. It was horrible. I tried to explain it to my husband, but he of course took it personally thinking it had to do with getting married, but really I have no idea why I was so anxious, nervous, whatever it was. I wasn’t scared of rain, it was gorgeous out, I had faith in all my vendors, and I wasn’t really having wedding nightmares, I don’t know what it was. The only thing I was thinking is that there would be a terrorist attack or a car accident that was the only nervous dreams I had. I think because when a wedding has problems it always makes top news, and I didn’t want to be one of those articles. I could picture it all in my head, the NY Times wedding announcement, pics of us at our rehearsal, our engagement photos, and then something tragic. I guess it just comes along with being a bride, but I wouldn’t want to experience that ever again.


East End Cigar- 246 Larkfield Road East Northport, NY 11731 631-754-6639. Groomsmen and Reader gifts- Turns out the owner works at my husband’s precinct. These were our Groomsmen gifts and they were SUCH a hit! Everyone loved the hand rolled cigars and thought it was such a great idea. I’m not about knickknacks especially now that we live in our little apartment so we wanted to give out something good, manly, but useful. My husband of course didn’t’ give the owner any direction so he took it all upon himself to create these little gift boxes, complete with cutter. Not only did he create the gift boxes, but he made us little bands! Absolutely wonderful on every end. Price, service and thoughtfulness. He even has a handroller, but we didn't have time in the reception to add one. He had the best prices I could find for everything on Long Island.




American Girl Place- $90.00+- This store is the most chaotic place I have ever been. Not in a bad way, just a million little girls screaming they wanted every doll in the store. It’s their only flagship store, on 5th Ave, except for one in Chicago. I took the little doll dress I had bought at Stratsburg and put it on the Kit doll. It fit perfectly and looked awesome! So many guests commented on ‘the custom dress’ and the Kit doll and how cute they were together.
bethsiar Posted:

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bethsiar Posted:

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20 minutes left of work!








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Im so nervous!








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Everyone put on my shoes!
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Jeanine Posted:

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Hi Beth,
Your pics are amazing. John (flower michelle) told me about your beautiful wedding when I went to finalize the flowers for my wedding. I was wondering, does the bagpiper have an email address? I called and left a message, but he didnt call back yet. Thanks!
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bethsiar Posted:

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well I tried to finish them all in time, but I gg to my train! heres one last:

Bride2B93 Posted:

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Beth, You look BEAUTIFUL!! I saw John last weekend (Flower Michele) and we were talking about your wedding!! I was saying how beautiful you looked in your pictures and that the flowers were gorgeous!!

Do you think that you could FM me the information on your veil? I love the way that it blows in the wind!!

Again, congrats on your wedding, everything looks wonderful!!
allure Posted:

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Once again these pictures are beautiful
semi Posted:

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Your wedding sounds like it was amazing. I have a couple of inquiries. If you don't mind, how much approximately was the cost of the cigar boxes that I see you gave out as a gift. Sounds like such a great idea...i'm at a loss for groomsmen gifts.

Any ideas for bridesmaids gifts? What did you do?
denised07 Posted:

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Hi Beth, You looked gorgeous, thank you for sharing your day with us. What a beautiful wedding. I want to ask you Did you have a photojournist take your pictures? Did you give him a list of pictures you wanted him to take. Also it seems like you live in the city. I live in the city on the upper east side, but Im from, and getting married in LI.

bethsiar Posted:

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Hi semi! Thanks for the compliments! The cigar boxes were around 40 dollars. Its really a budget type of thing, you could spend less or you can spend double depending on how many cigars you want... I really have to say it was such a hit with them. My GM has been thanking us so much b/c he had been in a lot of weddings and had every typical GM gift you could think of.


denised07- Thanks! Yes we had a photojournalist. We hired him through B rett M atthews. We didnt give him a list at all. At the final meeting I brought in pictures I liked from looking online.
He just took the right shots. In fact, there were a whole bunch of times where he would go to take a shot and someone would look over in his direction and he wouldn't take it b/c 'it ruined the shot' I see him doing that a lot on our video. That was a good quality b/c it showed me that the pictures he got were on purpose and not that he was taking a ton of random pics and some came out good. Like it was not by chance, but by talent. Ok, I'm babbling but I hope it kind of made sense.
mcaula Posted:

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Your wedding was a true fairytale from begginning to end thanks for the detailed reveiw I felt like I was there with you that day.

bethsiar Posted:

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I have 31 FMs to go so I am sorry if it is taking me a while to answer but I promise I will! I plan to spend a little while doing them today! :)


sorry semi- I realized I left out the info about my BMs. I bought them all the large size Elsa Peretti necklace, the heart one from Tiffanys.

You can kind of see it in this funny picture:




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another repost:










Dads give a toast:
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and we dance:






OK going out to Duane Reade, be back later!
BCTM33 Posted:

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Thanks for posting all these beautiful pictures! I have a quick question. I'm thinking of getting a 'real beil' as well, but I will have it trimmed in lace (a puddle veil - lace on the end) to match my dress. One person told me it might be too heavy and weigh it down. Do you think it would? TIA!!

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