So I have had a feeling that the plans for my bridal shower were in the works...
My sister's was at the Watermill and I know my mom wanted a catering hall for mine as well.... (had a feeling)
Well... this morning my parents rushed out of the house and no sooner than 20 minutes later the phone rings....
------------------------------------------------ 'Hi is Mrs. - there? '
'No, I'm sorry, she's not'
'Oh, Ok, this if --- from Carlyle on the Green, she has a 12:00 appt here, do you know if she is on her way?'
'I'm I beleive so, she left a little while ago.' (I didn't know what to say) ------------------------------------------------
Now my mom know I love the Lenox room at the Carlyle and I love the Carlyle in itself, so obviously she is looking there today for my shower, but I feel sooooo bad!
Do I tell her they called, or not.... what if she see's it on caller id, or what if they said, oh we just called you at home?
cjb88
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i think you should be honest... just tell her carlye on the green called for you... and leave it like that... or write a little note... a pretend you arent suspecting anything!!!
btrflygrl
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she may be just planning a surprise for your wedding...like ordering something extra for the reception.....you never know!
jimmysgrl
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Oh, I don't know. I'd say just smile and see what happens, no need to ruin the surprise if she doesn't realize it. If she asks, sure tell her the truth but so many times families try so hard to keep it a surprise you, its hard to tell them you know
Bride2005
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Posted by jimmysgrl
Oh, I don't know. I'd say just smile and see what happens, no need to ruin the surprise if she doesn't realize it. If she asks, sure tell her the truth but so many times families try so hard to keep it a surprise you, its hard to tell them you know
that's what I'll do- I don't think the appt was to add something as a surprise to the wedding bc my mom knows I am so anal I have to know and overplan everything... anyway it is still too early for that!
Who knows... they prob. they just went to get prices..... they might not even decide on having the shower there! (Although how awesome would that be!)
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Yeah, just in case, don't ruin the surprise. I wouldn't volunteer the information unless she asks. Hey - if you know how to work her caller ID, erase it!
traceyd
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I wouldn't mention anything unless she brings it up-I would let her think you are surprised she obviously is trying to hard to make whatever she is planning special!